the unfortunate answer is that some people, many people, are just vultures. They pretend they are friends, even good friends, for a long time even...but that is all a game for them, and when they find something else, it's like discarding a tissue. You simply stop mattering to them and they don't care at all. They are not 'evil', they do not wear devil horns - and you can't really accuse them of anything. They just slip away quietly and comfortably and to others can appear to be great people.
How is such a thing possible? How can human beings have the capacity in them to treat others in such a way? Well, if we could solve that question, we could solve all problems in the world pretty much. It is a mystery, but one those of us who are different, who are not like them, have to deal with.
I think you are very correct.. Just a quick update first, All my anxiety has been lifted so i'm feeling good about it all. Found out why my friends abandoned me, said I was "Controlling and Manipulative". Yet they couldn't present me with very good examples. Not only this they said it has been going on for 1 year, why didn't they tell me? Who knows.. Oh well.
Back on topic, as fadetoone was saying, I guess i can't really accuse them of anything, and maybe they really just don't like me anymore, and I slipped away and they do not l. . . man i'm ****ing tired, i'm typing this at 3:12am in morning LOL.. anyways...
In summary, How you said it was perfect, how they seem to be friends for long and then as simple to them as dropping a coin they let me lose. Yes I cannot call them 'evil', as much as I would love too. . But for whatever reason they chose me not to be their friends they did, its over now, all done and dusted.
My message to people out their, just keep your heads up, life does always get better, time heals.