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Xbox FTW. Although most of the guys that play black ops are obnoxious. I try to refrain from communicating with them. The conversations they have are pretty funny sometimes though, makes me laugh and takes my mind off things.
Haha that's what I do. Play video games all day
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Haven't written anything in a really long time. The way I feel, I could probbably write a nice long poem.
Yeah you might want to try that . It definitely helps me when I'm feeling depressed or lonely.


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I always feel for some reason I never fit in anywhere. Others seem to have so much fun/ but feel left out. Just have a fear of going out to dinner or in social setting fear that i will do something stupid. have learn to read hoards of books sew and sit at home sometime lonely walks alone.
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I keep it all locked up inside and on occasion have a good cry laying in bed thinking about how my life became what it is before I fall asleep.
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Since I get no social interaction in the real world, this site is the next best thing I have to meet that social need. I really doesn't really fill the void though, because you really just post comments and have no idea if anyone actually reads your posts. For all I know I might be talking to myself most of the time so it can actually make it worse.

I might have 1 to 2 people look at my profile a day, so at least I know some people are reading my posts and hopefully relating to them. At least I know if someone looks at my profile, I know they probably liked what I said so they wanted to know more about me. I always check out people's profiles when I get the chance to. I obviously can't click on everyone's but I check out people who write posts I can relate with.

Other than that I'll just play videogames and surf the web all day. That usually ties me over.

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How do you cope with the empty and loneliness feelings when you want to talk to someone (don't have to be deep talks just more than small talk) but there is no one to talk to?

I've tried watching movies or occupying my mind with other stuff but it doesn't work well since that's not what I want.

If I'm not really really tired it will end up with me crying myself to sleep. And that makes me nervous and afraid all day long that this night will end up just like the other night.

It makes me feel so pathetic but I try to not indulge in that feeling since it isn't making it better.
I try to take my mind off it. Thankfully for me the internet, books and video games are litterally a life saver.
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Come on here or try to read self help articles... Because I can't focus on doing ANY thing else.
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I feel the same way. Sometimes I can't sleep at night and wake up the next day with millions things on my mind, but when I try to talk to someone, it seems like no one would even care to listen. The way I cope with this is looking at funny photos. it helps sometimes. Reading is another way for me to deal with it. I find myself many times want to say something to someone, but they don't care, so I keep myself busy, I join a sport club and it keeps me out of worries.
The funny thing comes up with this is I want to write a book about myself one day, not to show other people, but to let anyone who feels the same way I do learn how to cope with loneliness.
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Sometimes I talk to myself, it can be nice. But I can also be angry, not necessarily at myself but angry at whatever I'm doing, which worries me.

Lately I've had a lot of tension in my head that won't go away. I used to associate it with moments of epiphany and stress release but now it just feels very uncomfortable. Sometimes I try to make myself cry but I find it impossible. I once had a friend say he wished he could cry, maybe I feel the same way, since I haven't cried in years. They say it can relieve your mind of a lot of tension.

People say you shouldnt burden other people with your problems. They tell you to take care of yourself, that you're needy and toxic. I don't know, I feel like there's something about me, its like everything I try to do, the more I try to push away my bad feelings, the more I try to solve them on my own, the more desperate I get.

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Stay online for hours. :-/ Makes me feel worse. When that lonliness sets in, I find it hard to focus on anything else.
You put into words something I've been doing but don't really understand.
Before I had internet set up in my room, I would fiddle with projects without any endgame. Same thing. Pointless. Lonely. Hard to focus on anything else.

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I know this feeling. I especially get this empty feeling very late at night since I can't sleep normal hours. I usually end up going to an online chat community in hopes of having a decent conversation with someone.
Yeah, that's why I'm here right now. What really sucks is when i need to talk with someone, really need to, but feel too tired to have to put it in words so they will understand.

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Isolate myself. Listen to music. Think bad thoughts. It might not be healthy, but I tend to feel better the morning after.
I do this sometimes. I think it's necessary to embrace the darkness if you want to embrace the light.

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Since I get no social interaction in the real world, this site is the next best thing I have to meet that social need. I really doesn't really fill the void though, because you really just post comments and have no idea if anyone actually reads your posts. For all I know I might be talking to myself most of the time so it can actually make it worse.
I read this post ^
Same sentiment here. Sometimes i feel useless. i had no idea people cared about my posts until i was going to leave.

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I just escape into my own fantasy world.
And this is why i am obsessed with fiction, in all forms. Fiction will not save your life, but it will make it more bearable.

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I live with my parents, so although i dont get along with them at all anymore, i talk to them about random things such as weather, etc. But basically im just sitting in a room all day on my tablet. I also do online chatting, so that gives me a lot of company. I dont really feel lonely, although i always feel very isolated from society and from humanity, almost to the point of mild depression. Like right now i am just thinking about what others are doing and im on this forum because im bored of playing phone games al day long in my tiny little world. Life sucks.
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That's really frustrating if there is no one. But infect, I don't really understand this situation because I have my own chatroom. And I cant talk to my customers all the time using a social chat like- ChatWing. This is a superb social chatroom where lot's of people can chat together. And the costing of using this chatroom isn't not so high. It's start with only $14 per month. I am really happy to use this kind of chatroom "ChatWing"
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