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What are you more concerned about out of these two?


Are you more concerned and drowned with thoughts and insecurities regarding sex and your nonexistent love life or your financial matters?

Both are very important to me and sometimes I find myself worrying too much about one and I feel hopeless when I realize how deep into the other one I am. Iím too deep into it man... but for me personally, thereís a third matter that I wonít bring up because most people wonít relate to it anyway.

So which one is it for you?



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Well I don't have a nonexistent love life, but I am not working atm (student), so the money one.
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I've been a lifelong incel loser and getting too old for it to matter much anymore. Personal financial matters means a lot to me. Since my career prospects are dead, it's very much a longshot to be rich someday, but I still often think about it.
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Non exsistent love life for sure. My financial situation is stable. To be honest, Iíd rather be broke but in love than to be rich and lonely...money does not buy happiness!


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I'm a lot more insecure about financial stuff yeah.

As I see it one is slightly embarrassing (but it doesn't feel that way to me at all but whatever, in a general sense,) the other makes people view you as the scum of the Earth and resent you so yeah lol.

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I live with my parents so currently more concerned about my nonexistent life and nonexistent sex life.

Edit: Or maybe job. I don't know. I guess I'm concerned about everything.

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More concerned with my lack of career at 28. Not sure what place is going to hire me with a spotty resume even if I get a degree.

Eh, I could care less about love life at this point. Those feelings turn me into an idiot, anyway.

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Financial matter and not knowing your life purpose. Nowadays it seem that money is everything when it come to having a relationship. And also having something going for yourself. I learned from my parents' divorce that a even though what little job you had and what effort you made and no matter how much you loved a person they can still abandon you after 23 years of marriage with no alimony. Almost left us on the streets. Financial matters is my concern for my life and any love life I may have a chance to have.




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You'll always need money. You won't always need that other.

I'm old and largely uninterested in that at this point. Starved, stressed and aggravated. You endure enough years of that and your desire goes way down. Out the window.

But you still need money.
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Financial matters. I have savings and a job, but I still worry a lot about it. Emergencies are so expensive. I've spent around $650 since my cat got sick in January on vet bills alone. Plus, something is always going wrong with my car.

I don't even know what I would do if I got seriously sick. I have no one to help me out, not even family. That would be it for me.

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Money is the one I can't fix or substitoot so yeah. Money for sure.

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Financial matters/money, because a lack of that actually stands a good chance of killing me, unlike not having a relationship, which I'm resigned to anyway. Unless there's some guy out there comfortable with caring for me financially/emotionally, without getting sex in return...? Anybody? Hahahaha. Hahahahahahahaha. Ha.

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Lack of partner/sex life/love is the biggest struggle.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go home and have a heart attack.
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I live with my parents so currently more concerned about my nonexistent life and nonexistent sex life.

Edit: Or maybe job. I don't know. I guess I'm concerned about everything.
Same..



I've been seeking happiness for years.
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I've prayed that God finds me soon.
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More concerned with my lack of career at 28. Not sure what place is going to hire me with a spotty resume even if I get a degree.

Eh, I could care less about love life at this point. Those feelings turn me into an idiot, anyway.
I Started making things up on my resume a few years ago. People donít even check anyway. I got hired at Winco because I said I had experience when I didnít. Just write things down and then have your mom or dad answer pretending to be an employer.



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I've spent so many hours in question.
I've prayed that God finds me soon.
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I've been a lifelong incel loser and getting too old for it to matter much anymore. Personal financial matters means a lot to me. Since my career prospects are dead, it's very much a longshot to be rich someday, but I still often think about it.
Same man..



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being single nicely compliments my lack of income.


when i get into a relationship the income thing will become a problem. i'm feeling ok with being single right now, and i don't want to mess up my hard earned ok-ness. i earn enough money to live off, which is enough. enough is enough. i need to enjoy being single again more than i need to find a new partner.

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Financial matters/money, because a lack of that actually stands a good chance of killing me, unlike not having a relationship, which I'm resigned to anyway. Unless there's some guy out there comfortable with caring for me financially/emotionally, without getting sex in return...? Anybody? Hahahaha. Hahahahahahahaha. Ha.
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Material goods and basic health/nutrition will always be more important to me than sex/romance
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