This is really a sickness that is pervading the human race. It really means very little to nothing. But people put alot of importance on it. On nothing. Its really easy to disagree with and also find sides in an argument about it, because its so ingrained in our society.. Its just weird.. and brutal.. sick. The fact that someone is outgoing very much or whatever is considered the opposite of this or not also means very little. Its crazy that people put so much importance on such a meaningless sliver of life. Its SICK. And its very real, inescapable. People are brutal, compassionless.. and its not being weak.
What is important is that all this noise and brutality, hatered, really it is so called civilized fighting, killing, meaningless violence, just like in the animal kingdom or barbaric civilizations. It means nothing, just ruthless competition, greed, selfishness.. People have no education about this, and the ones that benefit defend this. The world is being destroyed, life is nothing but a battlefield. And of course if you have no love or passion you will defend what benefits yourself, but that doesnt give a person real happiness, passion.. it doesnt make a person compassionate.
I think its much more important to learn about all this, and understand it. Its much more important not to be hurt by it or forced into competing with it, bottom or top, that is the sickness. Real happiness makes a person compassionate.. without the concern of being seen as weak. They arent seen as weak.