When I don't fit into Group A, it's probably just isn't right group for me.
When I also don't fit into Group B, it's probably just isn't the right group for me as well.
When I also don't fit into Group C, it's probably just bad luck/coincidence. Keep seeking.
When I also don't fit into Group D, E, F, G.. so on. Yeah it's not the group. It's not others. It's me. Something is definitely different about me. I just don't fit in with the world.
Eventually I learn to just say "screw it!" and just embrace Group ME. If several strays come along to wanna join Group ME, or if any other groups happen to invite me in, I will join. Even if they are temporary. I just learn to enjoy whatever comes to me and stop trying so hard. I am probably just a social Nomad. I feel much happier this way.
The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.
Enjoy any good things, even the little and menial ones, as you will never know what impending distresses could descend upon you in a moment.