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post #13241 of 14100 (permalink) Old 12-16-2019, 11:06 PM
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Issues at work, ****ty customer service everywhere I go...It goes on and on it seems like. I'm trying to keep it together but I have NOT been in a good mood all day today. And on top of this, I've become anti-social and don't want to socialize with anyone anymore. I hate a lot of people. Not most. But a damn lot of em. Sometimes, I just want to throw stuff but know it's not a good idea. Unless I could somehow go out in a field somewhere and throw useless things.

And people are fake as hell. I get tired of hearing that's life and that you should just deal with it. I want out of this crappy system. I cant be positive 24/7 and I'm not a superhero that can just magically have a mostly perfect mindset. People just will never understand. They'll always make up excuses for mean people til the day they die. Maybe they should just all go home to their animals taking better care of them than they would a genuine human being who wants some type of human interaction. Cause people have all the time in the world to take care of their animals or to have a life with kids but seems like no one is ever willing to talk and if they do then they gossip.

But I choose to be anti-social cause no one gives a damn.
I could have written this. I have written this. Right down to the animal thing.
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Is there anything that relieves your stress besides throwing stuff? Actually that doesn't sound like a bad idea if you could go somewhere and throw things no one cares about. Assuming it does the trick. I think it might kinda tend to lead you down a path you don't want to go though if you give in to the urge to do violent things when you're frustrated.
I've never known myself to get violent dojng stuff like this. I've thrown pillows and light stuff like that and punched my pillow before but I dont do it much. So at least theres that. It's just that I keep getting horrible customer service everywhere I go and I have told people this and they all make up excuses always asking me are you sure you checked that your appointment was the right day or are you sure this or are you sure that and I'll tell them this. So Idk. It's this city. I even had to explain 6 times total to 3 different people that were in like their late 30s to early 40s that my birthday is 1993 not 1983 and all three of them thought I kept saying 1983 for some reason even though I said it clearly. Normally I wouldnt get mad about that type of thing but the last time they forget about me then this time they cancel my appointment cause apparently I wasnt supposed to come in that day even though I obviously checked my appt time several times and even got a reminder on my phone about it the day before yesterday. Everyone will always tell me I need to speak up cause apparently that's a reason why I'm getting crappy customer service which is bull****. I shouldn't have to speak up just to be able to go back there for my appointment. So I just loooove that excuse. I even had to wait 20 minutes in the electronics section at Walmart before they even told me I cant pay for my stuff back there and you can too. There was a woman in front of me. That's just horrible customer service.

People act like I'm stupid or something.

@funnynihilist Yea, I couldn't agree more. Not saying animals shouldn't get treated good but people and animals should be treated equally in a good way. But yea. People suck. They like to play games, gossip,etc. Just trying my best to stay positive.
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Work sucks, I hate it there, I'm sick and tired of all the drama. I'm tired of being yelled at, lied too and being treated as if I am sub human.

I'm all alone and I don't know what to do? I'm about to be 37 with nobody to love in my life. Nobody to laugh with or cuddle, no one to hold hands or kiss.

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My tumblr was suddenly terminated without warning, this is actually a fairly common glitch and it's possible to get your account restored after contacting them. All I have to do is wait right now, in the meantime I've been preoccupied with what-if thoughts about it. I've used it nearly everyday for the past five years, it's an important source of social interaction and it would be like losing a diary if my blog really was gone forever.
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I am just really bored with life. I mean cmon. look around, what is so great about any of this?
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My uncle with Alzheimer’s disease died today. I'm glad his suffering is over, but he will be missed.

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My uncle with Alzheimer’s disease died today. I'm glad his suffering is over, but he will be missed.
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A friend I met up with the other day gave me a bag with all these presents in it. She'd obviously gone to a lot of trouble. And I had completely forgotten to get her anything - not even a card.

I opened the big one last night and it's actually quite an expensive gift. I don't feel good about this.
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A friend I met up with the other day gave me a bag with all these presents in it.
I opened the big one last night and it's actually quite an expensive gift. I don't feel good about this.
You ungrateful sod. Lol. Only kidding.


Sounds bloody sinister, that does. Isn't that weird? Potentially generous good intentions become across as weird/creepy?

If it was a guy suddenly and unexpectedly showering a woman with gifts like this, it'd come across as a desperate and lonely guy.

When a woman does it, it makes me think she could be a deranged, lonely, and hysterical crazy cat lady you can't say no to or you get your willy sliced off with a kitchen knife while you sleep.

Have you got back to her about the presents yet?

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Who vacuums at 10 pm?!
The upstairs neighbors lately have been vacuuming at 10am on the weekends!! Ugh. I'm still sleeping!!!
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Who vacuums at 10 pm?!
I did a few times before, when dog brought home fleas.
But if it's a regular thing, yeah that sucks and inconsiderate.

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You ungrateful sod. Lol. Only kidding.


Sounds bloody sinister, that does. Isn't that weird? Potentially generous good intentions become across as weird/creepy?

If it was a guy suddenly and unexpectedly showering a woman with gifts like this, it'd come across as a desperate and lonely guy.

When a woman does it, it makes me think she could be a deranged, lonely, and hysterical crazy cat lady you can't say no to or you get your willy sliced off with a kitchen knife while you sleep.

Have you got back to her about the presents yet?
Yeah well now I'm definitely getting worried.

I don't know what was wrong with me - for some reason I just never even thought of Christmas presents this year. I've been having a lot of migraines etc so it had taken a while for us to meet up again.

I'm pretty sure we're just friends - I'm too old for all that business nowadays. At least that's what I tell myself at the moment. I get dizzy just walking down the street so God knows how I'd manage anything much else.

Yeah, I've apologised a couple of times and I think it's okay - just a bit embarassing.
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The upstairs neighbors lately have been vacuuming at 10am on the weekends!! Ugh. I'm still sleeping!!!
This is why I always vacuum in the afternoons, when my neighbors are (hopefully) awake and/or out of the apartment.

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I did a few times before, when dog brought home fleas.
But if it's a regular thing, yeah that sucks and inconsiderate.
I'm pretty sure it is a regular thing. Usually I fall asleep before 10 because I get up at 5 for work. I know I've heard it before and it's partly woken me up out of a sound sleep. It's not a big deal, but last night I went to bed late and I had trouble falling asleep with that noise right above my head.

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