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post #13142 of 13180 (permalink) Old 11-01-2019, 02:25 PM
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For reasons I can't figure out, I've been really edgy over the past couple of weeks and it sucks as I was starting to calm down after starting medication.
However, the past... Two weeks? It's started up again, I'm gutted:/
I'm hoping it's just a dip but I'm not sure, I'm putting off calling any one about it just in case it brings it's self down again.
I should be hearing about therapy soon, I hope so any way.
I'm worried about talking to my husband about it as he'll worry.
And I don't want it on his mind when he's at work and that.
I really hope this is just a dip:/
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I hate seeing all these cool events in my area on facebook. it's just rubbing it in my face how i dont have anyone to do coool things with.


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Feel like my guts are twisting themselves inside out. I remember the good old days when I used to be able to eat, sit, and lie down without pain. Man, those were the days.

For forty-seven years I've put up with it now. I must stop Christmas from coming ... but how?
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Feel like my guts are twisting themselves inside out. I remember the good old days when I used to be able to eat, sit, and lie down without pain. Man, those were the days.
Did you ever get any kind of diagnosis or anything on that?

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Did you ever get any kind of diagnosis or anything on that?
I was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis years ago. They're scoping me out next week to see how bad it's gotten and if other stuff is going on. I get pain all over my body these days (bone pain, I think), and my glands have been swollen for weeks. I've had swollen joints, too. And something weird is going on with one of my kidneys (or possibly adrenal gland).

I got tested for HIV a couple years ago, because the gland thing has been a problem for a long time, but it came back negative. I think I either have a second autoimmune disorder (UC is AI) or, y'know, metastatic cancer. But clinic doctors basically ignore everything I say and I haven't been able to get a family doctor so I really don't know what's going on with me.

I'm teaching myself medicine now (immunology, mostly). Gotta do everything yourself these days. I barely have time to work because I spend so much time trying to fix my physical/mental health.

For forty-seven years I've put up with it now. I must stop Christmas from coming ... but how?
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just how I felt last night, the anxiety without an obvious cause, feeling the need to escape. wanted to play a game but installed and tried but it was **** anyway. old habits. so I watched some stuff instead.

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I hate it when I expect to see my crush but I don't... Ruins my whole day it does.


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I hate it when I expect to see my crush but I don't... Ruins my whole day it does.
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A bus driver made me take off my headphones in the bus today. I don't think the sound was bleeding out or anything, so I was really baffled. Since when were we not allowed to wear headphones? I've worn them quite a few times now and no one's ever told me anything. What a stupid rule. ffs There was another woman wearing headphones but he didn't tell her anything and I wonder if I should have stood up for myself then but of course I didn't.

The driver also completely drove past my stop for some reason and I spent a whole other 20+ minutes on it waiting to get off at another transit center, without saying anything. I'm ashamed at how much more of a pushover I become every day, but alas.

Even if it's inappropriate, sometimes I wish I could raise a scene just once in my life in these kind of situations, because at least it would show I have dignity.

Also, they made us change one of my buses for some reason yesterday and I asked the driver if it was still going to my school but didn't understand her reply at all. I asked her on the way out again but she still replied vaguely. Then I felt really dumb asking a third time but I was really worried I'd get on the wrong bus. She facepalmed at me and her coworker looked all amused. I felt like the biggest idiot but also found it very rude and unprofessional of her. Still didn't say anything, though...



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Wish I did drugs or drank or something just to make it go away
I've been using that approach since I was 16.....with generally good short term results but not so good long term. I hope you're feeling better. You were always someone I looked up to here. Hugs.

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My monitor just quit on me and had to I drag out an old TV to use the computer. Probably died from all the cringe posting I do.

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f*** it. i'm going to ask out my crush next week. even if it kills me.

sick of "having a crush". time for some action. even if it's a no i can move on with my life.


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f*** it. i'm going to ask out my crush next week. even if it kills me.

sick of "having a crush". time for some action. even if it's a no i can move on with my life.
woop good luck!

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