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New youtube laws.......
what are the new laws?

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what are the new laws?

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There was one like that next door to me for about 6 months once, drove me insane and I pondered if I'd rather be homeless than keep living with that. May your neighbors move away soon.

White noise might help, but yips are hard to drown out.
Thankfully it's not every day. I think the dog only whines until the owners come back, so it's more noticeable on days when I get home earlier or the owners come back later.

It's so annoying, though, and happens often enough that I've thought about writing a note.

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Repeated dishonesty and betrayal from the only person I have contact with in person. And the fact that I continue to put up with it, because what else am I going to do about it.

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My heart rate was 128 at the doctor last week. I'm pretty sure that's a really bad sign. I don't think it was anxiety either. I was no more anxious than I usually am and it's been high when I checked it for the past couple of years (not that high but higher than it should be).

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My heart rate was 128 at the doctor last week. I'm pretty sure that's a really bad sign. I don't think it was anxiety either. I was no more anxious than I usually am and it's been high when I checked it for the past couple of years (not that high but higher than it should be).

Mine is usually higher, blood pressure as well at the doctors. Me usually rushing to the doctor appointments only makes this worse.

Maybe keep track of your heart rate throughout the day every few hours consistently to see of any patterns or flunctuations.

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I just broke up with my boyfriend. It wasn't a great relationship, to be honest. So it's great that I got up the courage to do it. But...I did it by emailing him a picture of a letter I hand-wrote (it didn't seem like a good idea to break up with him in person). So now I have my phone turned off, and it's been over an hour since I emailed him. I'm nervous about whatever texts from him I'll see once I turn my phone back on.

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I put in new trays two days ago. Hopefully my teeth stop hurting tomorrow. It will suck if I can't enjoy Thanksgiving because it's painful to chew.

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I just broke up with my boyfriend. It wasn't a great relationship, to be honest. So it's great that I got up the courage to do it. But...I did it by emailing him a picture of a letter I hand-wrote (it didn't seem like a good idea to break up with him in person). So now I have my phone turned off, and it's been over an hour since I emailed him. I'm nervous about whatever texts from him I'll see once I turn my phone back on.
Sorry to hear that.

I would suggest to give him time to take it in (days if possible). Will most likely be upset. Some men get angry, some just cry and keep to themselves to grieve. But you know him best, so follow your gut instinct.
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I'm having lots of trouble pulling myself away from the computer screen. Somehow I started commenting some tall women's youtube channels, and they both wrote back. After that I just became addicted. I want to shut this thing down and watch modern marvels in peace. I feel like there is some kind of magnet in my head pulling into this. Apparently I can't handle my emotions correctly.
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Sorry to hear that.

I would suggest to give him time to take it in (days if possible). Will most likely be upset. Some men get angry, some just cry and keep to themselves to grieve. But you know him best, so follow your gut instinct.
What's really hard is his reaction.

Because he's not angry. He just doesn't accept the breakup. He still thinks I'm the only one for him and wants to work on things and not "throw in the towel." He still thinks I'm super great and that what we have is meant to stand the test of time.

It makes me so sad. I wish that he would just give up. I care about him a lot but I don't want a romantic relationship with him anymore, and I feel kind of heart-broken that he still thinks it's a possibility.

I'm wondering if I should just cut off contact and let him cope on his own, or what :/

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Mine is usually higher, blood pressure as well at the doctors. Me usually rushing to the doctor appointments only makes this worse.

Maybe keep track of your heart rate throughout the day every few hours consistently to see of any patterns or flunctuations.
Well, yeah. I get that but I've been going to the same doctor for many years and I'm usually not in the greatest mood when I go there. It was never high at all until a couple of years ago. Which is the worrying thing. It is (obviously) a bit elevated when I go there but it shouldn't be 128 when I'm just sitting there relatively calmly. It never was before.

I do have a meter and check it from time to time and it is often on the higher side no matter what. I can be sitting here relaxing and it will be 99. I get up and go to get a glass of water, come back, sit down for 10 minutes and check it again and it's 112. Probably not good.

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I put in new trays two days ago. Hopefully my teeth stop hurting tomorrow. It will suck if I can't enjoy Thanksgiving because it's painful to chew.
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What's really hard is his reaction.

Because he's not angry. He just doesn't accept the breakup. He still thinks I'm the only one for him and wants to work on things and not "throw in the towel." He still thinks I'm super great and that what we have is meant to stand the test of time.

It makes me so sad. I wish that he would just give up. I care about him a lot but I don't want a romantic relationship with him anymore, and I feel kind of heart-broken that he still thinks it's a possibility.

I'm wondering if I should just cut off contact and let him cope on his own, or what :/
Based on what you said when broke up with him, he may have read something in the letter you wrote, thinking there is something there still. Read the letter again and see if there is anything there. Or ask a female or male friend to read letter and ask how they would react.
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My program had a potluck today I always take a cake with. Since it's difficult to take a cake on the bus I rely on my RETIRED Dad to drive me to my pot-luck days. He did this morning. This afternoon I had 2 and half slices left of the cake. I got the cake on the bus and back to (town) and then as far as the grocery store before calling Dad since my arms were going to give out. He took his anger out on me about something which had nothing to do with me. 1)I should have tossed the 2 and a half slices of cake into the garbage instead of hulling it home 2)he drove my *** to the program this morning and 3)he will never drive me anywhere again including bowling OR program (the only other way I could take a cake to the program is if I had a bundle buggy that way I wouldn't have to be carrying it in my hands) and he wasn't going to haul my *** (along with Mom) to the church tonight 4)I don't do anything all day.. but sit on my ***. um I have more of life then he does.. and he sits on his *** if he has nothing else to do. When I was pointing out he was being nasty to be right in the moment without me having done ANYTHING he said "I BEEN NASTY SINCE THE DAY I WAS BORN"


When I tried to talk to Mom she didn't really want to hear it. Because she wanted to snooze before we had to eat. She said I was taking it out on her I wasn't I needed someone to LISTEN. But she wasn't in the mood to listen.
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I haven’t been feeling like myself lately. I guess I never really do since I feel like I’m devoid of a personality anyway, but it’s been worse lately. I don’t know what to do. I want to cry all of the time I don’t know why. I’m so empty nothing helps. I feel like people have stopped listening to what I have to say when I talk. My reactions to everything feel disingenuous and fake I don’t feel good.
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The thing is, I want to work, it's just that I don't want to work as much as I want to die. So I just don't do anything. I'm not sure if this still technically counts as laziness. You can vote either way, bc idgaf, I'm mostly just pondering the meaning of the term.

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