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^ sounds like a case of sour grapes! Sorry I couldn't resist hehe
the rest of the stuff Mom told my sister to take was more SPECFIC like Take 1, take 2, "take many". but all she wrote about the grape container was "top shelf". Its probably because I didn't take off "more grapes downstairs" label from 2 weeks ago.
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post #12962 of 14091 (permalink) Old 10-01-2019, 12:26 PM
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the rest of the stuff Mom told my sister to take was more SPECFIC like Take 1, take 2, "take many". but all she wrote about the grape container was "top shelf".
Sounds like a miscommunication happened
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Sounds like a miscommunication happened
Yah apperently my miscommunication. They expect me to peel off *** labels off a container when we already used the 2nd container when I already 1)make the ***fruit*** and clean up ****afterwards***?
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Iíve been working full time and made some friends this past year, but yesterday at work I realized itís hard for me to be present, to show up as my self if that makes sense. I spent five years friendless, spending any extra time I wasnít taking a college course in my room doing nothing that I learned to disassociate very well. I donít know why it took me until yesterday to realize this. I tried being more present after this epiphany but it lasted 15 minutes tops before I retreated back into myself. I think Iím too afraid.
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I find that in general, I am very averse to repetition. Like the kinds of things that you have to do that suck and you just have to keep doing them over and over and over and over. And there's the thing. They suck the first time you do them and they never stop sucking no matter how many times you do them. And you feel the suckage each and every single, solitary time.

I have a somewhat good tolerance for repetition IF (and only if) it's something that doesn't completely suck the first time I do it.

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I find that in general, I am very averse to repetition. Like the kinds of things that you have to do that suck and you just have to keep doing them over and over and over and over. And there's the thing. They suck the first time you do them and they never stop sucking no matter how many times you do them. And you feel the suckage each and every single, solitary time.

I have a somewhat good tolerance for repetition IF (and only if) it's something that doesn't completely suck the first time I do it.
And the older you get the more you notice the repetition...
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can someone please quote me? As i'm trying to find that page where it shows all your quotes...

but i dont know how you get to it.

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can someone please quote me? As i'm trying to find that page where it shows all your quotes...

but i dont know how you get to it.

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I find that in general, I am very averse to repetition. Like the kinds of things that you have to do that suck and you just have to keep doing them over and over and over and over. And there's the thing. They suck the first time you do them and they never stop sucking no matter how many times you do them. And you feel the suckage each and every single, solitary time.

I have a somewhat good tolerance for repetition IF (and only if) it's something that doesn't completely suck the first time I do it.
Psychological torment based on memory and imagination. I'm well versed in this.
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Mom goes to doctor for a different problem but has a lot of swelling in her stomach and legs. We think it is from the steroids but the doctor sends her to the emergency room. Long story short it is stage 4 cancer and she is expected to die in about a year. I am so broken. I just want to do something but there is nothing I can do to fix this. It hurts and I want it to stop.

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Mom goes to doctor for a different problem but has a lot of swelling in her stomach and legs. We think it is from the steroids but the doctor sends her to the emergency room. Long story short it is stage 4 cancer and she is expected to die in about a year. I am so broken. I just want to do something but there is nothing I can do to fix this. It hurts and I want it to stop.
Oh my god, I am so so sorry.

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why would it be bad to go there? do you talk to him?
Yeah I talk to him. Because he talks to everyone and is super friendly to all the customers. He's that kind of person. And in my deluded isolated mind that's starved off attention you just latch on to anyone and anything that will pay attention to you! I think every person with social anxiety knows that feel...

And then I'll go down the rabbit hole of deluding myself into thinking *wow someone's actually paying attention/being nice to me for once. There must be some ulterior motive. They probably like me*. Even though that's not the case, they're paid to be nice to everyone. I know that, but my mind doesn't.

But I just urrgh. He even said last time "it's lovely to see you again"... I'm like Can you stop being nice to me it's making it worse urgh!


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I’m bothered by not knowing my exact purpose of why I’m here. I think I’m lacking direction and when I think I know what I’m working towards, I change my mind and find myself back at square one.
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Mom goes to doctor for a different problem but has a lot of swelling in her stomach and legs. We think it is from the steroids but the doctor sends her to the emergency room. Long story short it is stage 4 cancer and she is expected to die in about a year. I am so broken. I just want to do something but there is nothing I can do to fix this. It hurts and I want it to stop.
I’m new on here and not even sure if I’m doing this right but I have been through this same situation you’re in twice in the last two years so if you need an ear or any advice I’m happy to help
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I think I’m friendly and know a lot of people but I don’t seem to properly connect with any of them and I just feel a bit lonely, like I’m not at the centre of anything
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Iím new on here and not even sure if Iím doing this right but I have been through this same situation youíre in twice in the last two years so if you need an ear or any advice Iím happy to help
Thank you so much, I have no idea what I am doing. I think just saying it out loud or writing it was helpful. So is a kind word from someone like what you just did for me.

"Life's a song. You don't get to rehearse. And every single verse. Can make it that much worse." -Buffy Summers
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Oh my god, I am so so sorry.
Thank you very much, having a stranger off the internet care enough to reply is actually a very good feeling.

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