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post #12961 of 13599 (permalink) Old 09-26-2019, 01:02 AM
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On a beer income?
Unfortunately it's me that's got the beer income mate, he gets a very good one.

He suggested a restaurant for his birthday that averages about 130 dollars a head. Cheeky boy - that's just silly. We're not going there.

Apparently he took his last gf there (twice) and really liked it.
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Unfortunately it's me that's got the beer income mate, he gets a very good one.
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He suggested a restaurant for his birthday that averages about 130 dollars a head. Cheeky boy - that's just silly. We're not going there.
Just say if you are paying, we may visit one day.

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Apparently he took his last gf there (twice) and really liked it.
Must have doggy bagged the extra food.
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Must have doggy bagged the extra food.
Probably just wanted to impress her mate - not a bad idea actually.
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Probably just wanted to impress her mate - not a bad idea actually.
Most likely.

But a fish and chips date on hill top, private place is sometimes enough.

Most unused food gets thrown out by restaurants. So either eat it or garbage it goes. They say the homeless should have the left over food, as just goes to waste.
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Mood Log on android. I tested lots and lots of them and this one most closely matched what i wanted (was going to try to write one, but dont have the mental resources for that right now). It misses a lot of things reports wise I would like, but it lets you quickly log mood, and assign tags as well, so I can filter by tags and see what my mood is like (hinting at things that may improve my mood).

It's very very useful, would recommend.


Uni Work is 5.67 (surprising since I proctrastinate and avoid it).
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Morning average is somewhere between 2 and 3
Evening average is maybe 6 ish.

So I need to be busy, get out of bed asap and start doing stuff, find things to do that let me interact with people, and keep going to the gym. I am going to be less slack with tags. They seem useful in determining exactly what boosts or reduces mood.
Sounds pretty useful. Thanks for the recommendation!
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post #12969 of 13599 (permalink) Old 09-30-2019, 01:20 AM
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I just don't know. Sometimes I sit here and I go through every single one of my thoughts in a way in which I am searching for answers and "I just don't know" is the answer to every single question. It drives me friggin batty.

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My parents and I are going on a trip in 3 days. Leave on Thursday. My sister was around helping our dad with jobs. But Mom told her (via notes) to take several things from the fridge. But there's one item I need for at least tonight-grapes and my sister took the ENTIRE FULL CONTAINER OF GRAPES I BROUGHT ON ****FRIDAY away. So I have no **GRAPES*** for our (Mom and mine) fruit for TONIGHT.
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^ sounds like a case of sour grapes! Sorry I couldn't resist hehe
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^ sounds like a case of sour grapes! Sorry I couldn't resist hehe
the rest of the stuff Mom told my sister to take was more SPECFIC like Take 1, take 2, "take many". but all she wrote about the grape container was "top shelf". Its probably because I didn't take off "more grapes downstairs" label from 2 weeks ago.
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the rest of the stuff Mom told my sister to take was more SPECFIC like Take 1, take 2, "take many". but all she wrote about the grape container was "top shelf".
Sounds like a miscommunication happened
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Sounds like a miscommunication happened
Yah apperently my miscommunication. They expect me to peel off *** labels off a container when we already used the 2nd container when I already 1)make the ***fruit*** and clean up ****afterwards***?
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Iíve been working full time and made some friends this past year, but yesterday at work I realized itís hard for me to be present, to show up as my self if that makes sense. I spent five years friendless, spending any extra time I wasnít taking a college course in my room doing nothing that I learned to disassociate very well. I donít know why it took me until yesterday to realize this. I tried being more present after this epiphany but it lasted 15 minutes tops before I retreated back into myself. I think Iím too afraid.
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I find that in general, I am very averse to repetition. Like the kinds of things that you have to do that suck and you just have to keep doing them over and over and over and over. And there's the thing. They suck the first time you do them and they never stop sucking no matter how many times you do them. And you feel the suckage each and every single, solitary time.

I have a somewhat good tolerance for repetition IF (and only if) it's something that doesn't completely suck the first time I do it.

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post #12979 of 13599 (permalink) Old 10-02-2019, 09:11 AM
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I find that in general, I am very averse to repetition. Like the kinds of things that you have to do that suck and you just have to keep doing them over and over and over and over. And there's the thing. They suck the first time you do them and they never stop sucking no matter how many times you do them. And you feel the suckage each and every single, solitary time.

I have a somewhat good tolerance for repetition IF (and only if) it's something that doesn't completely suck the first time I do it.
And the older you get the more you notice the repetition...
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can someone please quote me? As i'm trying to find that page where it shows all your quotes...

but i dont know how you get to it.

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