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post #12601 of 13100 (permalink) Old 06-13-2019, 02:01 PM
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maybe I misunderstood what you wrote. Do you mean because they are lacking info or because youíre implying they are not worth taking into consideration?
I edited my post a bit.

but anyway, they vary of course.

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post #12602 of 13100 (permalink) Old 06-13-2019, 02:05 PM
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I really want to date but I'm almost 9+20 and I still haven't had any dates and my parents aren't any help since they're either "Quera Sera" or talk about something else entirelty. I can't work and I do'nt go to school. They don't trust dating sites but dating sites are my own option at the moment since THEY aren't going to be even TRYING to help me in finding a partner they claim they care but if they actually cared they would be trying to help me find someone not change the f- topic.
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I really want to date but I'm almost 9+20 and I still haven't had any dates and my parents aren't any help since they're either "Quera Sera" or talk about something else entirelty. I can't work and I do'nt go to school. They don't trust dating sites but dating sites are my own option at the moment since THEY aren't going to be even TRYING to help me in finding a partner they claim they care but if they actually cared they would be trying to help me find someone not change the f- topic.
sounds like they limit you as much as help you. good luck going on some dates!

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sounds like they limit you as much as help you. good luck going on some dates!
Yeah they limit me. Outside of my day-program the only place I'm allowed to go on my own is Pickering Town Centre. If I wanted to go into Toronto (two of my girlfriends live there) I would have to have Mom come and do something else well I meet up with either of the two friends then meet up with Mom again. I mean seriously I'm going to be 29 a week from today. Also I have to have specialist appointments in Toronto and they don't think I would be able "understand a doctor" one of them have to be in the exam room with me. They also don't let me help with anything but supper (ie making a salad) or make fruit and yet I want to do laundry, be able to change a bed. I know I'm capable of dong laundry I did it once all summer except for once on my own because Mom was busy (either travelling or dealing with grandparents).
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I wrote a thread that I felt like I needed to write in order try and deal with an emotional issue I'm having. It seems that the way I wrote it is confusing some people. This is making me feel really stupid. I feel like if I didn't have this learning disability I could do a better job in all things.
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I suck and nobody will ever love me I'm going to be alone til I die.

I don't even know why I continue on, there is no reason for me to continue this B.S. existence any longer. I'm sorry I am such a loser.

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I suck and nobody will ever love me I'm going to be alone til I die. <a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a>

I don't even know why I continue on, there is no reason for me to continue this B.S. existence any longer. I'm sorry I am such a loser. <a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/bawling.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a><a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/bawling.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a><a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/bawling.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a>
I feel ya man.
That's a lot of hurt/self-hatred to carry around in your head. I know it's not easy to rid yourself of those sorts of feelings. But try not to let yourself hate yourself that deeply. You have value, even if you don't see it.

Hope you're feeling better or will soon. But if not, that is ok too : )

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Ads for Father's Day.

I already got through my dad's birthday, but at least it wasn't being advertised everywhere I go.

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I have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night."
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How people can have casual flings, hook up or 'discover' themselves but it seems like I hardly get any attention at all. Like, it feels like anyone can just decide to go out and meet someone, and they do it. But it's so hard for someone like me.

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The fact the listening to thread keeps restarting. So il post it here. Hope this helps to calm you down.


Our hopes and expectations. Black holes and revelations.
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Even when I try to be nice to my dad on fatherís day he ****s on me... I bought him a large sub rather than a regular cuz i thought why not go all out, and he complains that it isnít a ďsmall.Ē You didnít even pay for it you toxic *******.. god iím starting to feel like i wonít care when he passes away.
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Today is father's day. I haven't talked to my dad for almost a year now. I should call or message him today but I really don't want to. I don't want to see or talk to him ever again.

The only reasons I could think of that I should:

-guilt and anxiety about it. (Esp with my step sister. I feel awkward talking to her about it)

-he left all his stuff to me in his will and he has probably less than 10 years left. (****ed up to say but it's one of the only pros I can think of)

But that's about it. I hate talking to him or spending time with him. I always dreaded any occasion like my birthday or the end of August because it always meant I had to see him.
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Gave my father a call just now. It was awkward as hell. I could tell he couldn't wait to get off the phone. It was my second time talking to him recently after quite some time, as he any my mother called yesterday for my birthday. I'm sure he wouldn't have if they hadn't been driving together. Something about it pisses me off. Could at least make an effort.
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Ugh...

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Ugh he texted me "waiting for your call..."

I really don't care. He treated me ok but he treated all the other women in my life like ****. He cheated on my mom and probably my step mom and associates himself with an unrepentant child molester. He knew that this guy was ****ing 12 year old girls and did nothing. He didn't care, he was ****ing prostitutes in Thailand himself. I can't even explain how predatory and manipulative this man is. Both my mom and step mom are nurses because he forced them to be... so they could transition from wife to his caregiver since he is 25/26 years old than them.

Now he is pursuing an impoverished woman in Cambodia. I don't really care but she has a little girl which seriously concerns me since he was terrible to my step sister growing up.

Anyway ugh. I'm just tired honestly. I'm tired of dealing with this guy.
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Ugh he texted me "waiting for your call..."

I really don't care. He treated me ok but he treated all the other women in my life like ****. He cheated on my mom and probably my step mom and associates himself with an unrepentant child molester. He knew that this guy was ****ing 12 year old girls and did nothing. He didn't care, he was ****ing prostitutes in Thailand himself. I can't even explain how predatory and manipulative this man is. Both my mom and step mom are nurses because he forced them to be... so they could transition from wife to his caregiver since he is 25/26 years old than them.

Now he is pursuing an impoverished woman in Cambodia. I don't really care but she has a little girl which seriously concerns me since he was terrible to my step sister growing up.

Anyway ugh. I'm just tired honestly. I'm tired of dealing with this guy.
You're a grown woman, you can make the decision to not see him anymore. You don't owe him anything, it might be hard at first but you'll probably get over it. On the other hand, you can recognize that he's not perfect and forgive him for what he's done in the past. The power is with you and whatever choice you make know that it's where you're supposed to be. Everything we experience is for our own personal evolution.
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