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I wish my life would get on track a little faster. I need a job, and I need to get away from my family for a while, even if it's from working often. I'm sick of living this way.

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i've been so sleepy. only did 6.5 hours of work today but the whole time... just wanting to be elsewhere. either i don't get enough sleep or i get too much sleep, or something else? it does seem like when i don't get much sleep, i'm more awake the next day. but then there are days where i just want to sleep.

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I wish my life would get on track a little faster. I need a job, and I need to get away from my family for a while, even if it's from working often. I'm sick of living this way.
Good luck man.

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Good luck man. <a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/34.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a>
I appreciate it &#x1f642;
Just gonna keep applying until I get something and try to stay composed in the meantime.

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I had a really awkward conversation yesterday. It wasn't exactly me that made it so, but still, you know. It's a bad habit I struggle to get over, analyzing these interactions minutely for days afterwards. Most fade soon enough.


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I have a series of dreams about my ex who killed herself. Usually in the dreams she is recovering from a car accident and is unable to see me, but last night she had recovered however she had a friend of hers tell me she associated me with the accident and never wanted to see me again. She said she neither loved nor hated me she had no feelings left for me whatsoever. It is amazing how much pain a dream can cause, she died 11.5 years ago and it still hurts so much.

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singles meetup event is tomorrow. shopping attempt number one was a total failure. wanted to buy an outfit. oh well. also walking around people sucked and the whole thing just triggered self doubts and bad stuff.

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Basically why every game i’ve ever played and growed to love was completely ruined.. People who work in marketing, how do you sleep at night? please stop existing..


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I realise a lot of my posts are kind of arguey or bad or non-supportive. idk do I need to up the % of supportiveness? I do try to be supportive now and then. some posts are difficult to reply to seriously or lacking in information...

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I'm basically at the point of telling my parents that in the fall with or without their permission I'm going to be meeting people of the opposite gender for lunch or coffee/tea "drinks" that I meet online on dating sites since they aren't helping me getting a dam date at all. Since I'm tired of their ****.. and I'm tired of every place I go to if there's more then 2 people and even then its impossible to deal with people talking about boyfriends ex boyfriends, dating and not feel left behind. I rather just shut myself in a tower then deal with society anymore because I'm the only one not dating or ever been dating
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I realise a lot of my posts are kind of arguey or bad or non-supportive. idk do I need to up the % of supportiveness? I do try to be supportive now and then. some posts are difficult to reply to seriously or lacking in information...
you know, for a period of self-reflection you somehow made me more pissed off. Bravo.
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you know, for a period of self-reflection you somehow made me more pissed off. Bravo.
maybe that's just what you wanted and therefore I was supporting you.

I think I'll just continue as always. I never got banned. I mean even if I got people's opinions, I probably don't take those people seriously and many people I definitely ought to not take seriously. idk why I'm being self-critical.

how did I piss you off?

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maybe that's just what you wanted and therefore I was supporting you.
maybe I misunderstood what you wrote. Do you mean because they are lacking info or because you’re implying they are not worth taking into consideration?
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I'm basically at the point of telling my parents that in the fall with or without their permission I'm going to be meeting people of the opposite gender for lunch or coffee/tea "drinks" that I meet online on dating sites since they aren't helping me getting a dam date at all. Since I'm tired of their **** (Quera, Sera) and I'm tired of every place I go to if there's more then 2 people and even then its impossible to deal with people talking about boyfriends ex boyfriends, dating and not feel left behind. I rather just shut myself in a tower then deal with society anymore because I'm the only one not dating or ever been dating
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maybe I misunderstood what you wrote. Do you mean because they are lacking info or because you’re implying they are not worth taking into consideration?
I edited my post a bit.

but anyway, they vary of course.

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I really want to date but I'm almost 9+20 and I still haven't had any dates and my parents aren't any help since they're either "Quera Sera" or talk about something else entirelty. I can't work and I do'nt go to school. They don't trust dating sites but dating sites are my own option at the moment since THEY aren't going to be even TRYING to help me in finding a partner they claim they care but if they actually cared they would be trying to help me find someone not change the f- topic.
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I really want to date but I'm almost 9+20 and I still haven't had any dates and my parents aren't any help since they're either "Quera Sera" or talk about something else entirelty. I can't work and I do'nt go to school. They don't trust dating sites but dating sites are my own option at the moment since THEY aren't going to be even TRYING to help me in finding a partner they claim they care but if they actually cared they would be trying to help me find someone not change the f- topic.
sounds like they limit you as much as help you. good luck going on some dates!

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sounds like they limit you as much as help you. good luck going on some dates!
Yeah they limit me. Outside of my day-program the only place I'm allowed to go on my own is Pickering Town Centre. If I wanted to go into Toronto (two of my girlfriends live there) I would have to have Mom come and do something else well I meet up with either of the two friends then meet up with Mom again. I mean seriously I'm going to be 29 a week from today. Also I have to have specialist appointments in Toronto and they don't think I would be able "understand a doctor" one of them have to be in the exam room with me. They also don't let me help with anything but supper (ie making a salad) or make fruit and yet I want to do laundry, be able to change a bed. I know I'm capable of dong laundry I did it once all summer except for once on my own because Mom was busy (either travelling or dealing with grandparents).
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I wrote a thread that I felt like I needed to write in order try and deal with an emotional issue I'm having. It seems that the way I wrote it is confusing some people. This is making me feel really stupid. I feel like if I didn't have this learning disability I could do a better job in all things.
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