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post #12582 of 13090 (permalink) Old 06-10-2019, 11:30 AM
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climate change is happening but everyone is carrying on like normal.

at this stage it bothers me more than isolation and anxiety and being alone does.

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My roommate, thus far in the time that I've known him, has been a pleasant fellow. Calm, polite, well-behaved. Now, it's as if the ****er has flipped a switch. Seems to have dedicated himself to making my life miserable. Needling me. Finding out where it's vulnerable, sticking in the knife, and twisting it in an effort to make me angry and uncomfortable. I don't like a joke where I am the punchline, and they are only funny to me when not at my expense and everybody is laughing.


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I'm not very good at friendship. Or community. I wish I was inclined to like/enjoy the presence of people. I vaguely remember a time I could. People seem to inherently need community, and yet the only thing I can feel around people is fear and distrust. I wish I could just turn off the thing in my brain that cares.

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post #12586 of 13090 (permalink) Old 06-11-2019, 05:10 PM
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Iím on vacation to visit my family. I knew there was something wrong with my dad, but found out that he has stage 4/late stage lung cancer that has spread to the liver. This means he likely only has months to live (more detailed scan later this week), and naturally itís completely devastating for all the family. I donít know how Iím going to cope but Iíll just have to somehow. Itís overwhelming.
sorry to hear that. hope you're doing ok.

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I wish my life would get on track a little faster. I need a job, and I need to get away from my family for a while, even if it's from working often. I'm sick of living this way.

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post #12588 of 13090 (permalink) Old 06-11-2019, 07:53 PM
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i've been so sleepy. only did 6.5 hours of work today but the whole time... just wanting to be elsewhere. either i don't get enough sleep or i get too much sleep, or something else? it does seem like when i don't get much sleep, i'm more awake the next day. but then there are days where i just want to sleep.

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I wish my life would get on track a little faster. I need a job, and I need to get away from my family for a while, even if it's from working often. I'm sick of living this way.
Good luck man.

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Good luck man. <a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/34.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a>
I appreciate it &#x1f642;
Just gonna keep applying until I get something and try to stay composed in the meantime.

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post #12591 of 13090 (permalink) Old 06-12-2019, 12:42 AM
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I had a really awkward conversation yesterday. It wasn't exactly me that made it so, but still, you know. It's a bad habit I struggle to get over, analyzing these interactions minutely for days afterwards. Most fade soon enough.


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I have a series of dreams about my ex who killed herself. Usually in the dreams she is recovering from a car accident and is unable to see me, but last night she had recovered however she had a friend of hers tell me she associated me with the accident and never wanted to see me again. She said she neither loved nor hated me she had no feelings left for me whatsoever. It is amazing how much pain a dream can cause, she died 11.5 years ago and it still hurts so much.

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singles meetup event is tomorrow. shopping attempt number one was a total failure. wanted to buy an outfit. oh well. also walking around people sucked and the whole thing just triggered self doubts and bad stuff.

oh well

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Basically why every game i’ve ever played and growed to love was completely ruined.. People who work in marketing, how do you sleep at night? please stop existing..


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post #12595 of 13090 (permalink) Old 06-13-2019, 01:09 PM
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I realise a lot of my posts are kind of arguey or bad or non-supportive. idk do I need to up the % of supportiveness? I do try to be supportive now and then. some posts are difficult to reply to seriously or lacking in information...

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I'm basically at the point of telling my parents that in the fall with or without their permission I'm going to be meeting people of the opposite gender for lunch or coffee/tea "drinks" that I meet online on dating sites since they aren't helping me getting a dam date at all. Since I'm tired of their ****.. and I'm tired of every place I go to if there's more then 2 people and even then its impossible to deal with people talking about boyfriends ex boyfriends, dating and not feel left behind. I rather just shut myself in a tower then deal with society anymore because I'm the only one not dating or ever been dating
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I realise a lot of my posts are kind of arguey or bad or non-supportive. idk do I need to up the % of supportiveness? I do try to be supportive now and then. some posts are difficult to reply to seriously or lacking in information...
you know, for a period of self-reflection you somehow made me more pissed off. Bravo.
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post #12598 of 13090 (permalink) Old 06-13-2019, 01:42 PM
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you know, for a period of self-reflection you somehow made me more pissed off. Bravo.
maybe that's just what you wanted and therefore I was supporting you.

I think I'll just continue as always. I never got banned. I mean even if I got people's opinions, I probably don't take those people seriously and many people I definitely ought to not take seriously. idk why I'm being self-critical.

how did I piss you off?

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maybe that's just what you wanted and therefore I was supporting you.
maybe I misunderstood what you wrote. Do you mean because they are lacking info or because youíre implying they are not worth taking into consideration?
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I'm basically at the point of telling my parents that in the fall with or without their permission I'm going to be meeting people of the opposite gender for lunch or coffee/tea "drinks" that I meet online on dating sites since they aren't helping me getting a dam date at all. Since I'm tired of their **** (Quera, Sera) and I'm tired of every place I go to if there's more then 2 people and even then its impossible to deal with people talking about boyfriends ex boyfriends, dating and not feel left behind. I rather just shut myself in a tower then deal with society anymore because I'm the only one not dating or ever been dating
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