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I didn't have a knife so had to stomp on his head. Not sure how efficient it was but he seemed like a goner anyway(head looked half crushed and the car went over the body too), so was just hoping to speed things up for it. If the damage had been less would've considered taking him to a animal rehab or something(to my dad's annoyance). Almost a month ago I took in an albino escaped mouse I saw running around outside and it cost some money I really didn't have(it got a respiratory infection and I took it to a vet). He's a friendly mouse though. Normally don't take in every stray I see, but the mouse was a weird find and didn't anticipate it'd lead to a vet bill.
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Leaving my home of the past five years has been deeply agonizing, more than I ever would have expected because I thought I wanted to leave for the longest while. I haven't been sleeping well in months.

It hurts so badly, somehow.

Just random f-cking memories I made here, some of them completely inane like having avocado toast with a friend in a neighbouring town.

And as terrible as my romantic relationship was, he was my partner for the past two years. That does mean something. And I'll be abandoning him.

I feel so crushed, and I never would have predicted I would feel this way.
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The fact that i'm so stressed because on of the subject that i will take have a mandatory living in countryside for 40 days, not like i don't like countryside but how do i cope up 40 days without personal safe space (re : my own bedroom) it's still in a month but i'm so stressed up. Any idea on how to deal with this ? I can't drop this subject because i need it to graduate /le sigh/ plus i will graduate in 3 months yet i'm not ready to work mentally, also i don't know what i want yet
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post #12445 of 12811 (permalink) Old 05-18-2019, 07:22 AM
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I realize now who you truly are, a very unsafe person. It’s enough reason for me to not feel safe here and to stop sharing anything on this forum altogether. You never were a true friend and don’t have any real compassion or empathy for others. It’s enough reason for me to leave the forum. My only hope is you will stop preying and deceiving others on a mental health support forum. Please seek professional help for yourself.
I’m realizing and witnessing more and more how truly sick and dangerous this person is....

I want to explain more later when I can better put my thoughts together and when I’m feeling less emotional, upset and sick, I don’t think this person will ever stop or change, it’s up to us here to protect ourselves...
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Iím realizing and witnessing more and more how truly sick and dangerous this person is....

I want to explain more later when I can better put my thoughts together and when Iím feeling less emotional, upset and sick, I donít think this person will ever stop or change, itís up to us here to protect ourselves...
Oh wow hope everything is ok

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If it weren't for my crippling anxiety, I would knock on my neighbor's door and tell her to shut up. ALL DAY, EVERY DAY she sings and plays music, so loud that my entire wall vibrates. I'm in bed, with a horrible migraine and she won't shut up. Her high pitched voice can cut through glass

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If it weren't for my crippling anxiety, I would knock on my neighbor's door and tell her to shut up. ALL DAY, EVERY DAY she sings and plays music, so loud that my entire wall vibrates. I'm in bed, with a horrible migraine and she won't shut up. Her high pitched voice can cut through glass
Call the police?
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I matched with a guy on Tinder... I thought he was okay... now he's bombarding me with messages and literally replies back in 0.3 seconds. It just feels so keen and really off-putting. I told him I had plans for today and he said "dam i thought we were gonna meet" but he literally NEVER ASKED? Am i being too picky if i think he's too keen and thus now undesireable to me?


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I should have never even tried to tell my mom some of the stuff that was bothering me. She always somehow twists it into it being somehow my fault. Not this week. I really can't take that narrative this week. I don't know why she can't ever be supportive and always has to make me feel worse about stuff that I am already feeling bad about.

I don't even know why I bother. I've tried to work on this relationship but she's just a really unreasonable person sometimes.

Anyway I need to calm down and just forget about it. And accept the facts: She's not someone I can talk to about anything that matters.
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I should have never even tried to tell my mom some of the stuff that was bothering me. She always somehow twists it into it being somehow my fault. Not this week. I really can't take that narrative this week. I don't know why she can't ever be supportive and always has to make me feel worse about stuff that I am already feeling bad about.



I don't even know why I bother. I've tried to work on this relationship but she's just a really unreasonable person sometimes.



Anyway I need to calm down and just forget about it. And accept the facts: She's not someone I can talk to about anything that matters.

Iím sorry. My mother is like that too and itís really unfortunate and disappointing.

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I matched with a guy on Tinder... I thought he was okay... now he's bombarding me with messages and literally replies back in 0.3 seconds. It just feels so keen and really off-putting. I told him I had plans for today and he said "dam i thought we were gonna meet" but he literally NEVER ASKED? Am i being too picky if i think he's too keen and thus now undesireable to me?
He's probably just really horny.

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He's probably just really horny.
or just way desperate and this is his first match in weeks

would you reply or be scared off?


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I've been on a depressive kick lately. Not eating or sleeping right, abusing drugs and liquor, etc. Feels like it comes out of nowhere, but I suppose it is down to being lonely. Anyway, I'm not whining about that when things can be done. I've been thinking a lot about how to improve myself. You gotta get at the root rather than the symptoms, right? I came back around after a weird but enlightening dream this morning. I am terribly lazy and lack any self-discipline. **** though, how do I develop those when I am lazy and lack self-discipline. Catch-22.
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Overthinking everything is one of my problems. Like thinking someone is using me and theyíre probably not. (Unless theyíre really good and I am right but idk)

Thats the problem, I keep going back and forth and then I stress out which in turn makes me depressed because I start feeling like maybe I am just a play thing to entertain you while youíre dealing with whatever it is youíre dealing with. And this is with anybody, even friends.

Iím really fearful of being used because Iíve been taken advantage of by a lot of people throughout my life.

So maybe overthinking has become a defense mechanism?

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And it feels so good to hurt so bad
And suffer just enough to sing the blues
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Overthinking everything is one of my problems. Like thinking someone is using me and they’re probably not. (Unless they’re really good and I am right but idk)

Thats the problem, I keep going back and forth and then I stress out which in turn makes me depressed because I start feeling like maybe I am just a play thing to entertain you while you’re dealing with whatever it is you’re dealing with. And this is with anybody, even friends.

I’m really fearful of being used because I’ve been taken advantage of by a lot of people throughout my life.

So maybe overthinking has become a defense mechanism?
With SA we can pickup on fake behaviour.

People that use others are good at mirroring good peoples behaviour, but can't keep it up for long. Also can be highly aggressive or sweet to get their way, don't like criticism.

Sometimes we with SA get confused between what is genuine good behaviour, what is fake good behaviour, as even fake good behaviour can make one feel better sometimes, especially if been isolated a lot.

The key is not to wear your heart on your sleeve (show a business face) and only open up once you know them better.

People that use others look for caring behaviour (willing to give a little, help others), being emotional (know they can get a rise / emotion out of you), naivety (use their experience in an area against you with issues) which comes from being isolated and lack of life experiences.
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