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I stayed at my wife's house last night and whenever I use her hairdryer in the morning I end up looking like bloody Barry Gibb on a bad day.

(I've stopped wearing those tight pants though)
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I stayed at my wife's house last night and whenever I use her hairdryer in the morning I end up looking like bloody Barry Gibb on a bad day.

(I've stopped wearing those tight pants though)
Did Barry Gibb ever really have a good hair day?

And wet she rose from the lake, and fast and fleet went she
One half the form of a maiden fair with a jet black mare's body

And loud, long and shrill he blew til his steed was by his side
High overhead the grey hawk flew and swiftly did he ride
Saying "Course well, my brindled hound, and fetch me the jet black mare
Stoop and strike, my good grey hawk, and bring me the maiden fair"
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Did Barry Gibb ever really have a good hair day?
I think you've got a point there mate.
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called the vet this morning, they told me my cat died on dec 31st.
How old was the cat? How come your vet didn't tell you before you called?
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Roommate invites her boyfriend over, dirties the kitchen (without cleaning up), and then puts all her pots and pans into the dishwasher, knowing that I'll empty it for her tomorrow so she doesn't have to.

I'm going to start not emptying the dishwasher when she does this. I know she hates doing dishes and she relies on me to empty the dishwasher during the workweek because I get home first. I don't mind if it's dishes that get dirtied through normal use, but having to put away her pots and pans really irritates me.

I've endured that so much. Eventually I just resorted to keeping my own dishes in my own room, separated from everyone else. A few times, my housemates will ask me if I can take turns doing the dishes and for me to do it this time when they can't stand the mess they left. I just tell her "well.. none of these are mine, I washed my own." and they go "oh crap, that didn't work.." initially thinking some of those dishes were mine. Although I had one housemate who commented on how I am selfish for keeping my own dishes in my room and not sharing them.

The dirty kitchen does suck though, especially if you cook often there.

The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.

Enjoy any good things, even the little and menial ones, as you will never know what impending distresses could descend upon you in a moment.
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I donít think Iíll ever feel a part of any group, wherever I am, I am the other or the alien amongst men
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I think the friendlier i try to be, the creepier i come across

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I need to stop thinking or start having better damn thoughts.

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Back to work today and feeling depressed about it. The time off for the winter holidays is always something that makes the Nov/Dec tolerable, now into the new year it feels like there is nothing left to look forward to.

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post #10651 of 13979 (permalink) Old 01-03-2019, 06:48 AM
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All the cute guys are taken and none seem to want me. But they want all the other girls.
Hey PurplePeopleEater, I use to, (working on my self esteem) tell myself the same thing about the opposite sex too, that all the cute women are taken, they all have boyfriends and none of them want me, and the single ones want other guys, so I can relate. We have to teach ourselves that we are good enough and our value isn't placed on whether some cute girl/guy wants us. That if they can't see us standing in front of them than its their loss, we have to show em, we show em we're the best. Somebody will come along one day to make you forget all about those other guys. Plenty of guys out there for you maybe it won't happen now or tomorrow but he's out there.

I have a lot of plans alot and I've only just begun
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Besides my stupid throat. I'm afraid I'm never going to be able to distance myself from my association with certain things from the past. No matter how much I try to move forward, to make changes, people are always going to see me as that person. Somebody, Karma, a feeling people are getting are keeping them away.

I have a lot of plans alot and I've only just begun
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I have never been so confused in my life. My brain is basically mush for the time being. I honestly need the ability to see into the future in order to make this choice.

Also, commence possible self sabatoge in 3...2...1. I will regret today smh.

Miles to go before I sleep. Vale.

Know your ACE (adverse childhood experiences) score?
Sometimes, SA is a symptom of significant developmental, attachment or interpersonal trauma (emotional neglect counts). If you're still stuck after you've tried SA treatments such as CBT and exposure, research C-PTSD and see if it resonates. Here's an awesome resource. Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving
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Its like there's a culture of being lazy and stupid here. I put out my trash cans and the dickheads only empty out one of them.
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I did my hair and waxed my eyebrows so I could take some pics because I havenít posted a pic of me in about 6 months or longer. But then I went to take pics and realized ****tt Iím even uglier than the last time I took pics and realized I wasted my time trying to look nice for a pic. lolripme

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but if Iím honest
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with all the ways
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I've endured that so much. Eventually I just resorted to keeping my own dishes in my own room, separated from everyone else. A few times, my housemates will ask me if I can take turns doing the dishes and for me to do it this time when they can't stand the mess they left. I just tell her "well.. none of these are mine, I washed my own." and they go "oh crap, that didn't work.." initially thinking some of those dishes were mine. Although I had one housemate who commented on how I am selfish for keeping my own dishes in my room and not sharing them.

The dirty kitchen does suck though, especially if you cook often there.
I don't cook that much - mostly I eat canned or frozen food. I used to cook a lot more, but it's too much effort when I don't really care that much about what I eat. That's why I get so irritated about having to clean the kitchen - my roommate set the schedule, she uses the kitchen a lot more than I do, and yet I end up having to clean most of the time.

I did resist the urge to empty the dishwasher yesterday, even though I felt a bit like a jerk.

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about a year and a half. they needed to do some tests and they told me to call after jan 1st.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My cat is only a bit older than that.

It is the light she longs to find,
When she delights in learning more.
Her world is learning; it defines
The destiny sheís reaching for

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Going to be so hot today - 42C/107F which is just ridiculous.

Plus I'm getting a bloody migraine and I'm dizzy again. Good grief.
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I donít think Iíll ever feel a part of any group, wherever I am, I am the other or the alien amongst men
Iíve felt that way for most of my life.
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I think the friendlier i try to be, the creepier i come across
I can relate... I think thatís why I tend get more anxious than usual when meeting people in person.
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I strained my lower back a few days ago, and itís still bothering me.

Iím not exactly happy being bedridden... not the best way to start the year for me.
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