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Sounds like they are drinking.
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You're part of this forum that is amazing in a good way.

If I don't reply to you, it's NOTHING PERSONAL. It's my ANXIETY.

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Bothering me that this is a scary hill climb with those medium barrier thingy me bobs -

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My heart is racing while watching, as I know what that feels like to drive like that.

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Oh, ok.

Thank you for your kind words.
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My redneck neighbors shooting at **** in the middle of the night. It's ****ing pitch black, what the hell are they shooting at.

Ya. Mine are usually doing their 4th of july firework stash....still.


Its pretty quiet tonight though. For a change.
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I'm sure it hurts a lot, but she definitely isn't worth it if she is a liar and a cheater. Not all that comforting right now, but hopefully you will realize she isn't worth hurting yourself over.
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Men and women that are sociopaths use the "you are crazy" line when they don't understand what you are saying. I wouldn't worry mate, as sounds like you avoided a toxic person. Problem is with toxic partners is they do cheat (sometimes have 2x people on the go at same time and some are honest about it to people involved, some aren't like in your case).

Problem is with toxic partners like that is you gain an emotional connection with them. With them they are just using you for whatever they want (company, sleeping with you, etc).

They often mistake us for people like themselves (same personality as them), as the personalities are very similar, except we are empathetic and they are not. They get that way as they don't initially form an emotional bond with the parents (parents are too busy, socialize a lot and they are left home a lot and have to fend for themselves), so find it hard to bond with other people.
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Thank you. On its own, this is definitely not something I'd want to end my life over. But before meeting her, I was already at my wits end. She lifted me out of that. So now, combining my sad pathetic existence with this feeling of being played and lied to... its more than I can handle.

My chest hurts, I'm fidgeting, shaking even. This, combined with my life... it's too much. I won't kill myself, but I desperately want this pain to go away and I know it's not going to, not for a long time. I don't know how I'm gonna handle this.
I know how that feels. It's definitely more... intense losing someone when you also have anxiety and depression to deal with.

The most important thing is to not lose your self-respect over this girl. She is not worth that. No matter how bad you feel, you have to remember that.

And it seems like she's projecting on to you about being crazy. She wants to hurt you since she sees you as having hurt her (for realizing who she was and also telling her boyfriend). Certain people will use your 'problems' against you when they feel like you've wronged them (even when they were truly the one in the wrong).
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You're welcome mate.

Ah, that would explain it. Sometimes they are self aware at what they are, but don't seem to care.

They do tell the truth when caught, then go back to lying again.
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Thanks again for the response.

I didn't have much self-respect beforehand. The worst part of it is just the sudden void in my life that she occupied. Waiting and hoping for her name to pop up on my phone. All the times she didn't text me, and now knowing why.

I think I'll be okay. Tonight will be the worst. This week will be hard until it sinks in that she's gone and I never had her.

Thank you.
You're welcome. I know how that feels... having someone who made you feel better about life and losing them is tough. I wish I could say something more comforting.

Just do your best to stay away from her if she ever tries to come back (possible, since you never know with people like that).
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Oh man. I hope you can heal from all that.

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Was so distracted today that crossed a street without looking and realized once I was at the other extreme. I was shocked for what I did or what I did not (looking first).

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Sometimes, my roommate makes me crazy.
She lowered our mini refrigerator's degree at the lowest and everything froze in it. It's a refrigerator not a freezer? My mother and I made a dish before we came here, in two little boxes and they were frozen. Now, their ice is melted but they're nothing like you can eat now! Also she put tomatoes and they're frozen too. When one of them melted, it's water dripped in my milk in cardboard box somehow (it was closed) and I had to drink milk with tomato without realizing! Disgusting ugh. I had to clean up the tomato after it's melted because she was going to see her boyfriend. Now the refrigerator is still a mess. There are some other problems with her too. Maybe she's not a good roommate after all.
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I hate family gatherings because they always say something to make me feel bad about myself. Like yesterday I told them I joined a gym and they all laughed at me and said it's a waste of time.
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Sorry to hear.

Reminds me of the movie "The roommate".

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