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A bunch of guys just sat at a table near me. One was facing me, and I heard him say she's ugly. Then another friend sat in a spot to block his view. Thanks
I know how that is. I've had it happen fairly recent with two guys who said something as I was walking away - one of the words sounded like 'ugly' and I was just about the only other person around. This isn't the first time it's happened and at some points I [try to] brush it off since I've heard it a million times before. Nevertheless, it still is bothersome sometimes. Don't people have other things to talk and worry about?

As corny and overused as it is, it says something about them, not you.
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That is just some men being rude, insecure. I wouldn't worry about it. What you'll find out is they say it to men too.

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post #1003 of 13254 (permalink) Old 09-27-2017, 10:07 PM
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My mom and I got into a fight about her boyfriend, and she was so mad she left (with him). I left too and now I'm sitting at the pond crying by myself like a weirdo. I don't know if I can live here anymore, but I have nowhere else to go.
Sorry to hear that. You're mum is probably too invested and doesn't want to confront the inappropriate stuff he's doing. It'll likely settle down, but... can you live with anyone else?
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post #1005 of 13254 (permalink) Old 09-27-2017, 10:36 PM
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That is just some men being rude, insecure. I wouldn't worry about it. What you'll find out is they say it to men too.

I think you look pretty in your photo's.
They're right. I'm a hideous monster.
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They're right. I'm a hideous monster.
Nope. You are pretty. Not going to change my mind on this.
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If you personally do not have issues with whatever someone is frustrated about, you cannot comprehend the pain it causes them. They are not wrong simply because you do not understand them.

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Sorry to hear that. You're mum is probably too invested and doesn't want to confront the inappropriate stuff he's doing. It'll likely settle down, but... can you live with anyone else?
Yes and no. I could go back to living with my dad, but the reason I left in the first place is because I was going to school so he was supporting me, but his financial situation slowly got worse and it stared getting unstable. I couldn't get a job because we were sharing a car, and we lived in the middle of nowhere so there weren't jobs I could just walk to. I wouldn't of lived here unless I was desperate and had no other choice. Things will get better when I go back to pretending I'm not uncomfortable here. Right now I'm just working on my resume, trying to get a job (or 2) so I don't have to rely on them and can spend as little time possible in the house.
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I'm hopeless of things ever getting better for me because I keep trying and nothing works. I've already missed out on so much. I keep wondering at what age I'll be old enough to say I can end my life at
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Going on the deeper end of depression now. I'm trying to look up doctors but either 1) they don't accept my insurance or 2) they don't practice the type of field it is claimed online. I'm losing hope. I can't go to the ER, but if nothing's done then everything will slip away again.

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The utter hypocrisy and sexism regarding male and female circumcision. A doctor is currently facing life in prison for doing to two girls what is done to hundreds if not thousands of boys every day perfectly legally.
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If you personally do not have issues with whatever someone is frustrated about, you cannot comprehend the pain it causes them. They are not wrong simply because you do not understand them.
Yep.

I know such people usually mean well, but still...if they haven't been in that situation over and over and over again...they really can't understand. :/


...Granted, there are some people who HAVE been in a certain situation over and over and over again...yet even they don't understand when someone else has been through the same, just because that person isn't them...that's pretty frustrating too.

I wish people would just stop doubting others' experiences when they have no reason to lie.

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I've been on SSRIs for over a year now. My depression improved significantly for quite a while, but lately I feel like things are getting worse again. One could speculate that I initially felt better because I was hopeful about finally getting help, and I also had someone special in my life soon after (and now I don't). I feel like the meds work somewhat, but maybe they're losing their potency?

And I'm not sitting around thinking about my life or future. It's mostly just... I feel it physically and now my thoughts are getting worse along with it. I'm going to see my psychiatrist again soon, but I had tried switching to Prozac a while back and had a bad experience with it, so switching meds scares me. I'm starting to feel rather hopeless again about my health and future. Not a good feeling at all.
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Bothering me that this is a scary hill climb with those medium barrier thingy me bobs -


My heart is racing while watching, as I know what that feels like to drive like that.

Great driving mate to keep it off the barriers.
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My earphones work fine but one of it's plastic part is lost and doesn't fit in my ear. So I'll have to buy another one (I can't use them over one year, whatever brand they are, a problem happens every time)
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