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People not being as organized as me bother me. Uncle asking to borrow something because he didn't plan for something to happen. Always plan for the worst learned that many years ago. Too many people do stuff without thinking, I never do that.

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I'm am really, really bummed about that electrician.

I thought it was a joke or fluke when he said he felt that i should explain the text in person.

I called him and left a voicemail saying: "Dude, that was stupid of me.. I guess you wanted a better clarification on the phone."

Apparently, he didn't..

I wanted to make sure, and make no assumptions..

I guess my husband was right after all.. this guy does NOT want to be friends..

He wanted a roll in the hay.. He's really good looking.. and can have any female he wants for that ..

bummer..
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And that minister..

After i dropped the bomb letting him know that i am absolutely not attracted him.. He stopped all communications..

I thought at least he would text and wish me a happy new year.
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I think the worst guy on the rejection list was my best friend/coworker at the time. A southern male who lived in Bogalusa, MS.

He asked me to come visit down south. And paraded me around his friends, and family.. prouder than a peacock..

I had no idea he was telling his step brother that he and i were banging each other..

When his step brother told me this, i was livid. I made sure, that he knew i was never interested in my friend in "that" way.

His stepbrother looked at me and said: "Any one can tell you weren't. He's just using you to bolster that damn ego of his. But hell, ya can't blame him can you?"

That night, coming in from the gym, i came back to my friend's house, he found out that his brother told on him.

He didn't take it very well, knowing that folks knew or found out he was lying his as** off to every one.

So.. as i'm walking in the door, there he is with a rifle pointed right at me.

He was actually going to try to rape me at gun point.

I wasn't having it, stood my ground, and told him to shoot me first, because i'd die before giving him anything. He didn't, but he sat there in his chair with the rifle still pointing.

I just started packing, and walked out the door. He was still sitting there with the rifle pointed at me, but didn't have the balls to pull the trigger.

When i made it into New Orleans that night? I realized just males truly are when it comes to attractive women.

I went to the police station, and filed a report. I got looked up and down by the clerk who heard my story and helped me fill out the paperwork. He actually said:

"Well, you can't blame the guy for trying".. This felt like a nightmare that was actually a reality..

I later told this to someone in passing, and that jack as** said the very same thing: "Well, you can't blame the guy for trying"..

I heard that phrase about 2x more, before i realized, this is how guys truly think.

I also realized that the police report wasn't going anywhere because my coworker and the cops in that location probably knew each other.

Gawd only knows what would have happened if i naively jumped in the police car with them, and they all drove to that guy's house with me in the back seat..

Sad to say this.. I don't believe i'm all that attractive.. but when guys believe you are? Get ready for rape culture..
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A girlfriend won't solve your underlying issues.

Only you can do that.

I hope you find happiness someday.

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I just wish my friends would understand about how I feel about some things. This is why it's very hard for me to open up to many people about what's truly going on inside and if something is bothering me. It sort of gets to me a lot, but I never say anything because I hate being a problem.

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@Crisigv

Have to do that every 3 years and I believe has to be a coded battery (only can run a battery with that code) due to 24 volt electrical system on your car.

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Just means you will want her around all the time. You need to have multiple friends as well to spread your time amongst them. Prevents being too needy.

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Nothing always goes to plan.

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Some men are like that. So are some women.

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Happy New Year.

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People not being as organized as me bother me. Uncle asking to borrow something because he didn't plan for something to happen. Always plan for the worst learned that many years ago. Too many people do stuff without thinking, I never do that.
What did he borrow?
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The fact I was sick with the flu and missed a WEEK of work last week and it feels like I came back to work today to a disaster on my desk. Plus the mounting pressure from our CFO to get everything from last year accounted for & turned in by TOMORROW, when we're all 2 weeks behind. Kill me.
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Only you can do that.
Nah, I got tired of my own company

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Just means you will want her around all the time. You need to have multiple friends as well to spread your time amongst them. Prevents being too needy.
I'm not needy, at least not with my online friends, I don't know how I would behave with a gf though
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What did he borrow?
Flavored water....didn't plan on the filtered water going out....pipe froze.

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