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Nah, i get hurt easily. But i have overly jealous tendencies that i put down to it being a long distance relationship.
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i am/was on antidepressants (most of them) on and off throughout the years. they help with depression more than anxiety.
but i'm isolating myself. i never work because my father gives me money ,so my anxiety is keep getting worse and worse.

the only thing that helps with anxiety is exposure/facing my fear and forcing myself to be social, but i never do that myself because i'm in love with my comfort zone ( home/the gym and grocery store are in the same street that i live in. i don't even do shopping. "very rarely"



you're on the right track. experience comes with practice, you still young. and if things didn't work, look for another job.. just don't give up. and i always think you are cute as fook, but you are now nicer and less badass =)
Meds to help anxiety seem hard to come by. It all depends on the person and how they react and the right dosage.

Damn, that sucks. I'm sure there's people in the same boat as you. Whenever I lived with my mom, she would buy stuff for me every now and then. Once I moved out, I had to grow up quick.

Exposure is the best way to help. But be prepared to get embarrassed a lot. I had no choice but to do it through exposure and I've been embarrassed so many times, I'm used to it. If I get embarrassed now, I usually only think about it for five minutes at a time and move on. Comfort zones are a hard thing to get out of. I would recommend exposure if meds aren't your thing.

I won't give up. Gotta make it somehow. At least the manager was cool enough to give me another position. Either way, I'm going to have to deal with the public. Thank you.

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Yea, everyone learns differently but the way the manager was talking to me over the phone made it sound like I was the only one he had who worked bad. I only had two days worth of training anyways. If he'd given me a week, I would've been better at it. But part of my job would've been to call customer service on their phone. I couldn't have done that.
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Feeling like crap and I don't want to do anything but if I do nothing then nothing will get done and so much needs to get done.
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I hope the exercise, distraction with movie helps.

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Oh, Ok.

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You get out of your house and you see all these couples on the street, it's kind frustrating. Even some really ugly guys with beautiful women, there must be something wrong with me
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My problems, feelings and whole life seems so childish in comparison to others.
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Nothing wrong with you mate. Just people like us personality wise are rare to see out there. Then there is finding a match from that group of people looks, etc wise.

Usually find your match looks much like you looks wise, personality wise.

Some people settle for the wrong person.

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No.

Just different life paths, life issues we have to deal with. Sometimes our life issues are similar.
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Bullcrap of a culture here in the Philippines, and I'm guilty of it sometimes, and lately I learned that some classmates don't like me but don't confront me with my flaws... Man it's frustrating that ugh for some peiople I feel like they're being a dick to me but won't really talk to me about my flaws. Then, now, I don't really know whether they're really rejecting me or it's just social anxiety.

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Nothing wrong with you mate. Just people like us personality wise are rare to see out there. Then there is finding a match from that group of people looks, etc wise.

Usually find your match looks much like you looks wise, personality wise.

Some people settle for the wrong person.
Thanks again man. I think my appearance is ok but there is something about my personality that turns them off
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You're welcome mate.

Just finding someone much like yourself.
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I just want to vent, don't have to quote me.. but I sense abnormality somewhere. I wonder how much percentage un normal am I or how much percentage is normal. I'm sure the abnormal part exists on the scale of irration as the "women hate me" theory. Which is crazy because I would not like to be so irrational. Something about cloistered nuns. I wonder if there are any rebel nuns who feel the same.
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