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Maybe she has a crush on you all of a sudden? Why don't you try talk to her. Like normally.
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Maybe she has a crush on you all of a sudden? Why don't you try talk to her. Like normally.
eh think that would scare her away even more.
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I've had similar **** happen to me before with people. I just assume its because I'm boring and interesting. Either way it hurts. :'(
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eh think that would scare her away even more.
At least give it a try. What we think not always what it really is.
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Something happened. You either said something she didn't like, she saw you do something she didn't like, or things have changed in her life (she possibly met a new friend/s and thinks your friendship ran its course). You can ask her what's up and if she still wants to be friends.. that would be the adult thing to do. If she doesn't answer or says she does but doesn't treat you like a friend then the friendship is definitely over.
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She could have mistaken your shyness for ignoring her one time or something? This has been happening to me too much of late.

I guess I don't blame people since hard to tell. It's probably best to ask just her if you two were close.
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We still talk at work and laugh and smile like everything is fine. It's just weird that she went from talking to me all the time on snapchat/FB, to not talking to me much if at all on there..
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Just ask something like "what you been up to? I haven't seen you online as much". I've had this happen to me and usually the person just loses the mood to go on chat or social media as much.

I go through those phases too, where I'm really active for a few months and then just can't bring myself to go to that same app or site again.

Since she's being okay at work I doubt it's anything to do with you. Are they just as active with other people?
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Perhaps she traded you for someone else, bf or bff. People do that without letting people know about it. If that's the case, let it be and find someone else you too. Easier said than done but still.
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Sometimes I wish that people would stop talking to me and pretending that they care about me.
Try asking her what's happened maybe she will give you an answer...

Even shy people can be sassy sometimes...
I'll put drunk raccoon in my signature as well, because I CAN...
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Speaking from experience she probably no longer enjoyed interacting with you, found someone better to talk to, or she never enjoyed interacting with you but she had no one else. But eventually she decided to just **** it and stopped talking to you anyways because she didn't enjoy talking to you to begin with.

My best friend from 1st grade to 6th grade did this to me when he finally found a new friend. He found me to be miserable company because I was pretty damn boring. But he had no one else. He struggled to make other friends. He was stuck with me for 6 years. After he ghosted me, he went as far to vandalize my locker, carve my name all over the school with explicit embarrassing insults. Almost the entire school stigmatize me and made fun of me thanks to that. Best friend of 6 years from bitter enemy within 3 weeks. It happened randomly and spotaneously in an instant. All because I am a boring person.
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