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I will stop letting out my daily stress and frustration on him.

I will stop viewing him as the solution to all my problems then get furiously angry when he can’t measure up.

I will stop using him as my emotional punching bag.

I will stop being mean to his friends and talking bad about them in an attempt to have him all to myself.

I will stop being insanely jealous and stop constantly accusing him of cheating when he isn’t.

I will stop being Dr Jekyll and Mrs Hyde.

I will never lay my hands on him again, unless it’s to cuddle and kiss 🙂

I will only say good things to him, and never insult him no matter what.

I will continue to satisfy him sexually, help him with his housework and responsibilities like the best wifey ever. 🙂

I will show him how much I love him and appreciate him.

I will follow these rules every single day.
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A healthy relationship should always follow these kind of rules, from both sides.

"Those who scale the pinnacles of glory have the furthest to plunge into the abyss." --Melothrucius Lux, Warhammer 40k, Codex: Chaos Space Marines (8th Edition), pg. 12
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That sounds like a tall order. Not to undermine your efforts, but maybe ask yourself why you were treating your boyfriend badly in the first place.

Figure out the underlying cause, work on that, and treating your boyfriend (and yourself) well will take care of itself.
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I will stop viewing him as the solution to all my problems then get furiously angry when he can’t measure up.

I will stop using him as my emotional punching bag.

I will show him how much I love him and appreciate him.

I will follow these rules every single day.
These are nice. Sometimes you forget men are actual human beings lol. Just want to use them and take advantage of them. 🙂 but really I think this is the sign of an emotional dependent kind of relationship, and thats not healthy. It really isnt fair for any guy to be expected to handle my mess. But when you meet a guy, you'll idealize him and think he's like a God, and that he should take care of you. I think girls naturally act like that towards someone when they fall in love. Good luck in your relationship!
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