Pushy, intrusive & judgemental girlfriend of my brother
My brother brought his girlfriend home today on my brithday so she could meet my parents and me for the first time. I was already very anxious and had taken my SOS tablet so I could make small talks. She was quite nice to my parents but for some reason was acting very pushy and judgemental towards me. She kept pushing me and asking me on why am not applying for Canadian permanent residency even though I told her repeatedly I don't plan to leave home for now. There is a craze for Canadian pr in India and for some reason she made me look like an idiot in front of everyone for not wanting to do this as she thinks I am overly qualified and could easily get thru. I have had my fair share of travel as I have lived in US, UK and Dubai but my anxiety worsened in these countries and now plan to be at home where I feel more comfortable. She then went on to make me feel miserable when she asked my plans for birthday repeatedly after I had said I just wanted to stay home with family. She said I look like the kind of guy who doesn't really have any friends and asked me if I knew any places in this city just to prove I don't go out and am kind of a loser. Even though I didn't want to, I went for a dinner with them later where both of them had planned a intervention. They started telling me that I need some mental healing and I have become isolated and what not. This was really uncalled for and now I feel like am the joke of this family. My parents didn't even bother to intervene and probably enjoyed her way of 'pulling my leg'. They are completely oblivious to how I feel. I only wonder how I would tolerate her when my bro gets married!