People who tell the "lonely single" to just live and not worry about being single
Make me SICK. Ok, I'm ranting here.
Some people advise single ppl who REALLY REALLY want a significant other to not worry about it and just live life, focus on career, hobbies, bettering yourself,etc. I think that advice is just an example of a LACK of sympathy toward lonely/horny single people.
I believe that no one should wallow in self pity.But, the ppl who give the lonely,single ppl advice to just live life don't seem to just be saying "don't wallow in self pity". They seem to be saying STOP being so concerned about something that is REALLY important to you.
Living life and bettering oneself? Who is to say that someone who is really interested in being in a relationship isn't working on bettering themself?
Seriously, problems abound.Why is it I never hear the " just focus on bettering yourself,hobbies,career etc" when it comes to other problems in life?????? I only hear ppl spiting that out when it comes to ppl who really want a bf/gf but don't have one.