People seem to not Like me at all - Page 3 - Social Anxiety Forum
Thread Tools
post #41 of 41 (permalink) Old 01-16-2020, 04:06 PM Thread Starter
SAS Member
Join Date: Jul 2017
Posts: 742
Originally Posted by millenniumman75 View Post
It takes time to get used to. It's like training to run a marathon. You can't just go out and run 26 miles on your first try. It takes dedication, stamina, and....get ready for it.....patience!
Thanks, if there is one thing i am lacking is patience. If someone asks me directions i get overwhelmed at this point. i have my headphones on anyway in public at all times.
I really don't have time to socialize anyway because i go to pro sports games and movies almost every night and i have a business online that I spend 20-70 hours per week on, depending on the week.

Anyone at a game I meet, almost everyone wants to drink and I don't want to spend $14 for a beer that costs $1.50 at a supermarket and I can't drink anyway because I am at risk for diabetes, if i gain 30 or 40 pounds I would be at super high risk for diabetes. My point is everyone at games i would meet is drinking so if I don't drink i stick out like a sore thumb, i would rather be alone and not drink that put up with boring people who drink beer all game and yell and before you know it i am broke and fat

I am not saying socializing is natural to me at all, or that I feel normal in that environment talking to people, so it isn't like i really stand that much of a chance anyway you know,
I would be like a fish out of water and even with a ton of work, I would have more obstacles than the average person
Disheveled and Lost is offline  
Sponsored Links

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page

Posting Rules  
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome