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post #1 of 8 (permalink) Old 04-05-2008, 04:36 AM Thread Starter
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People just dont stay long..why do I get attached?


I feel so incredibly empty and sad.

Dont you hate it when people in your life for one reason or other just up and move on. How is that to me it seems people cope much better than me, I'm on the verge of tears, did this person not mean alot to them or do they cope better than I. Why can't people just stick around for a lot longer than they do. Yeah, that is life people move around. I do not like it.

I have a lot of stuff going on and the emptiness is unbearable.

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post #2 of 8 (permalink) Old 04-05-2008, 08:51 AM
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I used to feel this way. As you lessen your anxiety you will be less inclined to feel "threatened" by changes, IMO.

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Sorry you're feeling so down Jenky. I hate that too.
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Time was when people valued their relationships more. We're all kind of disposable to each other now.
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I wouldn't know. I've never had anyone that close to me. My family bothered me so much that my goal in life was to move the hell away from them and I did: 160 miles away. I'm glad to be away from them. Talking to the walls and living alone is better than the bull I had to put up with from them.
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I know the feeling. I remember when my two best friends moved away. It felt like a part of me went with them.
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Yes, yes, yes.
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People come and go from my life all the time. I'm used to it. It's actually easier this way.
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