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post #1 of 14 (permalink) Old 10-05-2020, 06:50 PM Thread Starter
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Not doing so good at the moment


Hey all, I've been dealing with a lot school work, stress, work, pent up feelings and well...I don't have anyone to talk to which adds a feeling of loneliness and solitude.

How can you lose when you're doing you ?
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What are you going to school for? What kind of job do you have? I have a lot of stress with my job too currently
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Sorry to hear @JustSmileZee . I understand loneliness believe me (as do many on here), you aren't alone, in your loneliness, at least. One of the more difficult things to cope with. Hang in there.

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Hey all, I've been dealing with a lot school work, stress, work, pent up feelings and well...I don't have anyone to talk to which adds a feeling of loneliness and solitude.
Talk to us. This board recently helped me through a very difficult time. We are here for you
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What are you going to school for? What kind of job do you have? I have a lot of stress with my job too currently
I'm going to school for nursing at the moment which is made complicated by the pandemic. As for work I'm an afterschool teacher and unfortunately working through remote learning can be quite stressing. Especially because we have all ages mixed in so some students cant understand the tasks at hand as easy as the older one. Sorry for laying this all out! But please tell me about your job too I'd love to listen.

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Sorry that you're going through that. I hear you on most if not all that you've listed.

You are doing what you can and it's enough.
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Sorry to hear @JustSmileZee . I understand loneliness believe me (as do many on here), you aren't alone, in your loneliness, at least. One of the more difficult things to cope with. Hang in there.
Honestly everything was going so wrong. Your comment was really powerful and moved me. I felt a bit of relief when I read it. Thank you so much for that

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Talk to us. This board recently helped me through a very difficult time. We are here for you
I now see how helpful and how wonderful everyone is here. Thank you so much for that! I hope everything is okay with you as well and if anything I'm here for you all as well

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Things picked up a bit, thank you so much. That day I was really deep in sadness. What made things worst was being stuck home alone. I felt so much pain inside and I just wanted to talk to another human. You're all so wonderful thank you all

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post #11 of 14 (permalink) Old 10-11-2020, 06:39 PM Thread Starter
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Sorry that you're going through that. I hear you on most if not all that you've listed.

You are doing what you can and it's enough.

Thank you so much for that. If anything just hearing me out for that bit is more than enough . I hope you're doing well yourself and if anything you can reach out to me too !

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I'm going to school for nursing at the moment which is made complicated by the pandemic. As for work I'm an afterschool teacher and unfortunately working through remote learning can be quite stressing. Especially because we have all ages mixed in so some students cant understand the tasks at hand as easy as the older one. Sorry for laying this all out! But please tell me about your job too I'd love to listen.
Nursing school is very tough from what I have heard from friends so its normal to be stressed. Its a great job once you graduate. Can get a job anywhere (so you can move anywhere you want) and pays well.

You also got a job now which is better then a lot of people right now. So things are not that bad. You currently got a job and even though it may be stressful you have work. Try to find another job to get you through school if you feel you cant manage your current one due to the stress.

Your doing well just keep up the hard work and 5 years from now when your making good money as a nurse all this stuff your going through now will be a bad memory
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