My mom can have narcissistic tendencies. I was discussing work, like any day, an incident happened at my workplace that wasn't a massive reason of concern. I took it upon myself to take care of the situation as I didn't want anyone to get hurt. My mother felt it was above my job description (which it is, but I didn't care) and was mad that I went to someone higher up who told me it was my responsibility. Which it isn't, but I took care of it prior to asking so I didn't care. My mom took it upon herself, to my disagreement and literally begging her not to, texted my boss basically saying she was outraged and they it was unprofessional. Which made me beyond upset & worried about my current job position as it is not at all her place to speak on my behalf and it wasn't something that even bothered me but her. I then had my boss call me wanting to speak with me about this incident that wasn't even an incedent, and it was just this uncomfortable situation where I had to low-key pretend it bothered me slightly so my mom didn't look like a psycho (b/c I love her) but also tell her that I didn't mind making me look indecisive. So now my bosses most likely think that I went to her asking her to speak to them......and I'm pissed about the entire thing. You do not have a right to reach out to my boss when I'm discussing my personal life, or my day. You don't have a right to take my voice away. I haven't spoke to her in two days and it sucks. This is going to blow up in my face though. Chances are they spoke to the person who is higher up, that I work with, and she's going to give me hell. If I was my boss I'd want to fire me.
"Though my soul may set in darkness, it will rise in perfect light;
I have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night."