I live in a small 2 bedroom apartment with mum, and we have noisy neighbors upstairs with 2 children who always run around and stomp, scream and cry and the parents slam doors. I ignore the noise as much as possible, but my mom gets really really mad when they run and make noise, then she comes into my room and complains about it to me, when I don't want to talk about it, she gets really really mad at me and says that I take their side, then she goes around slamming the doors in the apartment and screaming insults at the neighbors. I try my best to stay out of it and my mom gets really mad at me when I don't want to take part in being loud to get back at them. My mom gets mad easily and I don't know what to do. She says I am selfish when I don't want to talk about the loud neighbors. I don't want to make any more enemies because I already have enough enemies because of my mom's anger. We have a hostile neighbor next door as well. And I am afraid if the ones upstairs hate us too then the neighbors will join forces to do something really bad to us. I don't know what to do. My environment is so negative and its really bad for my already damaged pysche, and when I tell my mom this she gets mad at me and says mean things to me.