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post #21 of 21 (permalink) Old 11-08-2019, 09:16 PM
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Can I just say having friend isnt everything. I think its like money, object, or anything someone desires. It sounds nice, but it's not all smiles. I do have social anxiety, but I do have one close friend. It took me many years without ANY friends to get to that place to feel comfortable to open up and be a friend. However, it's not all that great. I prefer to be alone. Friends arent going to heal us, and they wont complete us, tbh they can kinda just cause drama and annoyances! I live my life alone, and if I am honest I enjoy it. I think we try to hard to be like all these other people who make socializing look so easy, when I think a lot of us truly enjoy spending time with ourselves. I know people who LOVE being up someones butt 24/7, like my friend I mentioned? She used to text her ALL day, call her on her breaks, this girl can't be alone. I think there can be something really beautiful about living a life alone. It's too much energy trying to be someone I am not. I hope this can help, and just know your life is enough! You don't need anyone else to make it better. Focus on you
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