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In the interest of peace, you might have to play nice. It seems like there are enough challenges at the moment. Your husband seems to be trying to keep peace. It's probably a good idea to do the same. This is a temporary situation which will end one way or another. Either she'll leave or, in a few years, you and your husband will leave. Same result in the end.
thanks. in my mind i just see it as never ending but logically it will.
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ya i noticed. i like that term peacemaker



doesn't make my position sound as lousy! haha.

Peacemaker is an important job. Very seriously! It can really help everyone involved get through a tough situation. You're doing a good job.
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thanks. in my mind i just see it as never ending

It'll end. The toughest time will be waiting. Fortunately, both of you are young and you'll be able to enjoy many years once this situation is over. . This will all be just a memory.
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Peacemaker is an important job. Very seriously! It can really help everyone involved get through a tough situation. You're doing a good job.
seems like it. members like u hide, like hidden gems on this site. haha... well thanks shorefog. your words count. Showing u care counts for people like myself.
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It'll end. The toughest time will be waiting. Fortunately, both of you are young and you'll be able to enjoy many years once this situation is over. . This will all be just a memory.
thanks. have u ever been married yourself? just curious about this.
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seems like it. members like u hide, like hidden gems on this site. haha... well thanks shorefog. your words count. Showing u care counts for people like myself.

This is a nice site for support. Thanks for your kind words on the other thread. It's appreciated.
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thanks. have u ever been married yourself? just curious about this.

Nope. I've been engaged before but never married.
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Nope. I've been engaged before but never married.
you're 44 tho, i mean that's still a reasonable age to get married

it's ur life.
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you're 44 tho, i mean that's still a reasonable age to get married, but they should stop asking till u actually bring someone.



hmmm, wow some people, or should i say most people... jeez.

I understand the reason they ask. My dad passed away a few months ago and I think Mom wants to see me married while she's still here. My younger sister got married years ago so she made me look bad. . (Just kidding. She's an awesome sister.)

So, one day "soon" I shall bring someone to meet the family.
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I understand the reason they ask. My dad passed away a few months ago and I think Mom wants to see me married while she's still here. My younger sister got married years ago so she made me look bad. . (Just kidding. She's an awesome sister.)

So, one day "soon" I shall bring someone to meet the family.
Good spirit I'll pray for ya.
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Good spirit I'll pray for ya.

Thank you. You and your family are in my prayers.
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