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My husband doesn't understand my pain


And he never supports me emotionally and thinks I don't care.

I fought with my husband and he never cared my brother didn't either nor my mother none do.


Except my mom knows my husband will never support me she said he'll never stand up for me

I told them I don't want to be here. N I meant anywhere n no one cares.


How'd this happen? Because I'm not good enough for anyone and they mock me so I just want to leave.


Leave. Going away.
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I can stay


But if he tells me I don't care then there's no long any reason to


"Stay anywhere"
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So why did you marry him?
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So why did you marry him?
I love him but I'm suffering....


I can stay but if no one even believes I give a Damm then why not leave

Everyone has been messed up. He doesn't care if I'm hurt.... he loves me to death but he just doesn't care if I'm suffering

Why breath.
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Can you explain more? I like to give my option on things but it seems like to much is missing.
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It's dumbfounding that you would even consider staying in a situation which is clearly so unhealthy. Ask yourself, do you want to continue to feel this way for another 60+ years?

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Aww that really sucks. What do you want to do? Do you want to stay with him?

Why dont you move in with your parents for a while till you can decide what to do.
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It's dumbfounding that you would even consider staying in a situation which is clearly so unhealthy. Ask yourself, do you want to continue to feel this way for another 60+ years?
U understand it's dumbfounding to stay with these ppl
My blind hubby


I love him I am sick of life afraid worried


Scared 1 day I will be abused till the day I just go n divorce the man I love

Life is hell 4 me. N I said I wanted to u know... drown somewhere


They think I'm jk.... I'm really tired.

Love him but pains
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Aww that really sucks. What do you want to do? Do you want to stay with him?

Why dont you move in with your parents for a while till you can decide what to do.
Ya I'm actually at mom's trying to figure it out and talk to her later

Maybe she'll take me to a psychologist but I really just need some marriage counseling I feel like since there's major issues my hubby doesn't get.....
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Can you explain more? I like to give my option on things but it seems like to much is missing.
he denies when I say I have been hurt

Lots of problems now TBH no sex cause I'm well

Depressed. N he doesn't support me emotionally properly

He acts like it's OK for me to live in this misery
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That is messed up i would support somebody that close to me unconditionally smh.
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he denies when I say I have been hurt

Lots of problems now TBH no sex cause I'm well

Depressed. N he doesn't support me emotionally properly

He acts like it's OK for me to live in this misery
How often do you see these people? How close do they live?
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How often do you see these people? How close do they live?
I live with them the in laws. N my husband doesn't see no issue with everyone mocking me.

I was suicidal since 17 I'm 22 n not crazy. Just stuck n hurt how ppl treat me.

Well my mom here I avoid her n expect nothing from her. My bro is just a follower of his wife so he's no longer a brother. Ya.

I told my mother in law I'm not happy. She did nothing. Said nothing.
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what did you expect her to do? any ability for the 2 of you to move out? farther the better?
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what did you expect her to do? any ability for the 2 of you to move out? farther the better?
Atleast she could've talked to me

But she's actually the cause of all this misery I really never blame her when it's her fault.
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No he the guy has anxiety too. No arranged.
He knows about sas but never read far into it


Are all in laws this crappy
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Are all in laws this crappy

Unfortunately, there are many in-laws that aren't looked at favorably.

I'm sorry that things are rough for you. Hopefully, he'll agree to seek counseling with you.
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Unfortunately, there are many in-laws that aren't looked at favorably.

I'm sorry that things are rough for you. Hopefully, he'll agree to seek counseling with you.
He should he's a real guy

I don't want to lose him I'm just fed up of no one understanding me. After all that's what every female needs.


I'm not lucky but I do have him
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Next time you see him kick him in the nutsack hard, and say this is what life does to me everyday man :/






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