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post #1 of 10 (permalink) Old 08-12-2018, 02:19 PM Thread Starter
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My friend doesn't know i have a sister


And ive known him for years...i am terrified of him finding out as i feel he will be mad at me for not telling him

What should i do?
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just tell him, it could be a weird and funny story, is he always getting mad you for little things like that? i dont think so, ok. maybe he is a really angry guy though, i wouldnt know.

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I havent seen him since 2014 but he messages me on facebook once in a while. I met him in 2011. Yes, he is a fairly angry guy
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Just tell him, screw anxiety, and if he judges you then that is wrong of him
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I think that's a fairly minor detail to get so angry with someone about. I've known people that were more acquaintances and years passed when I'd find out they had a brother or sister. It's not really pertinent information. You could always just say Oh hey funny thing I just realized I never talked about my sister with you. or something.

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Show him a pic of her and ask him what he thinks.

Then reply "ewww dude thats my sister!"




But for real you're overthinking it, tell him if you want. I dont see why he would get mad unless you lied about having a sis even then I'd be more like that's weird than mad.
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I am terrified of my friend thinking im weird
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Why would he be mad at you for that? It would be odd if he was.

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And ive known him for years...i am terrified of him finding out as i feel he will be mad at me for not telling him

What should i do?
Bro why would he give a ****? He's your friend, not your sister's. If he didn't ask if you had siblings there's no reason to tell him.
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post #10 of 10 (permalink) Old 08-14-2018, 11:40 AM
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Dude, tell him. There's nothing to be afraid about. If he's your friend he'll understand that you were anxious about it and hopefully things won't be awkward between the two of you.
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