My personality is off-putting online and in real life. There is a fine line between being a total jerk and being funny. I think it helps to be kinda a dick, to where you poke fun at things or people, but i have not mastered how to do that. The most popular people often throw people under the bus, they just do it in a way that is somehow acceptable to their moron friends. I think even saying things in a way that you don't offend people is a skill you have to master, i just am too old and tired and run down to care enough to even think of trying to correct any of my inadequate way of communicating with people. I partly don't care, and partly don't think i have it in me.