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jman128 12-01-2015 01:53 PM

I was a great kid, but a horrible adult
 
I got the best grades, I was creative, I liked educational topics, etc...

And now I'm unemployed, broke, and just have little work ethic. I'm just so tired of trying to be an adult. I just want to be a kid again because I succeeded at it. I miss video games, I miss not having to worry about money, I miss dabbling in different subjects instead of trying to pick one, etc...

Farideh 12-01-2015 01:59 PM

This morning, I told myself that being a kid is easier than being an adult because you don't have to pay bills. I'd rather be surrounded by bullying classmates than be on the edge of becoming homeless.

0blank0 12-01-2015 02:01 PM

Amen!

niko009 12-01-2015 02:08 PM

Same here, i look back 10 years ago and think wow, how my life has changed so much..

Sad Larry 12-01-2015 02:16 PM

At least you dont get homework or tests. You dont get orders from no one and you get ultimate freedom. youre so greedy

nordision 12-01-2015 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sad Larry (Post 1083520225)
At least you dont get homework or tests. You dont get orders from no one and you get ultimate freedom. youre so greedy

That's the gift and the price of an adult, yes you have freedom, but you have bills to pay, groceries and a long list of responsabilities and you don't really enjoy that freedom, this is available if someone really want's to be an adult, independent who doesn't live with mom and dad anymore, independent life far away from mom and dad home can be a real hell even if it sounds cool and awesome you need to buy every little **** from your house even your small toothbrush.

Saitama 12-01-2015 03:23 PM

A great kid? LOL! It's just that people tell kids how great they are so they actually believe it. Back when I was a simple minded idiot I thought I was pretty great too.

nordision 12-01-2015 03:37 PM

As a little kid I always made my parents angry because I used to not be interested in learning for school and I had bad grades, at school I was bullied and kids avoided me because I was never fun, I was always a very gloomy and serious kid the others were smiling they acted like kids, in my case I just wanted to be left alone even my family and our family friends were really shocked back in that time about my behaviour, because I was very different compared with other kids, as a teen I was very rebel and I annoyed my parents a lot, at highschool because of my social anxiety I was bullied and considered a freak and everyone avoided me, I had no friends I spent my teenager years alone, I had a girlfriend but she cheated on me and she steal things from my house, and I fought with my parents for her a lot, I made my parents to suffer but she just cheated on me, she took my money and steal things from my house, so my parents don't trust me even now with some things, now my teen years are over and I can say I get along well with my parents, I'm not so rebel anymore, but they still don't trust me, I guess it will take some time until they will trust me again, at college I can say I have a good relation with my classmates I even started to socialise a little more because they are nice with me so I caught some courage, but I think I'm already a failed adult, I'm good for nothing, I have no future.So as you can see I was a strange creepy kid, a loser teenager and now a future failed adult.


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