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I hate.....

1. I hate not being able to talk to my family
2. I hate not being able to hold a decent conversation with anyone.
3. I hate being scared to drive my friend home from a get together because I
don't know what to talk about in the car.
4. I hate that I never have a witty reply to the thousands of annoying comments I get a day.
5. I hate having awkward body movements
6. I hate sounding weird when I talk
7. I hate the dead silence after I kill a conversation
8. I hate my personality(Introvert)(ISTP)
9. I hate that I'm the only one that sucks in my family
10. I hate that I'm to scared to call my friends
11. I hate that all my conversations on the phone are awkward and I never know what to say
12. I hate that my siblings can talk to relatives on the phone and I can't
13. I hate when people call me weird just because I'm quite
14. I hate that I never know what to say to anyone
15. I hate that I haven't enjoyed one moment of my life since I was 12 years old.
16. I hate that I will never be normal
17. I hate that my whole life is forced
18. I hate that having fun with friends is work for me
19. I hate when friends constantly make sarcastic jokes about me
20. I hate going to work because I don't know how to joke around with the other guys
21. I hate not being able to dance, catch the latest funny phrases, and use family guy quotes.
22. I hate not being able to audibly comprehend what people are saying, especially if there is even the smallest amount of background noise
23. I hate when one of my friends makes me feel so low when that happens
24. I hate not being able to talk to girls
25. I hate being boring
26. I hate being scared to say hi to my friend's parents
27. I hate having a blank mind
28. I hate that you have no choice
29. I hate that there is nothing I can do, I will always be this way until I die
30. I hate that my kind of personality is just thrown into the world just to make it different; not to make it better
31. I hate the feeling that I am worthless to my parents and to the world
32. I hate that no one gets it that somethings are freaking genetic, and you can't change that crap.
33. I hate that my personality, even though I could be jumping out of airplanes, shooting paintball guns, and flying around in jetbacks, makes everything seem boring.
34. I hate that everyone has something to say after a movie and I don't
35. I hate when I just absolutely don't feel like talking and it's more painful then nails in my skull just to utter one word.
36. I hate that I've lost so many friends because I can't talk to them
37. I hate that I don't know how to handle myself and end up just looking like a dork
38. I hate that this one guy I rode bikes with had another guy call me to ride because he knew I was so awkward on the phone.
39. I hate that I suck at being social
40. I hate that most everything you do requires socializing
41. I hate feeling so awkward being alone with one of my parents or siblings because I don't know what to say.
42. I hate that I get scared to be alone with someone and am relieved when someone else comes back so they can entertain the other person
43. I hate that I get good grades but feel dumb anyways
44. I hate being a social outcast, loser, suck-at-life bumb, who just fails at everything.

Alright I'm done. Your turn?
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ditto...although I can't bring myself to drive yet...
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You are the male version of me.....
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Agreed in all, except where you live. That you don't hate I'm sure
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I can relate to every single point.
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post #7 of 66 (permalink) Old 08-11-2009, 11:11 AM
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this is quite a productive thread... :S

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I can relate to everything you said.
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45. I hate that often people think I'm cold or snob when in fact I'm just very shy and craving for more compagny...

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_dealing with my depression
_pple give up on me because they don't want to deal with me
_being truely alone in this world

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Wow, you described me perfectly...
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Holy **** dude. I really could have written that myself. I think the same **** like everyday- like 90% of that runs through my head every day- I go through the same **** all the time- the family ****, the stuff at work. It's painful, all of it.

This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time.
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This is accurate for me too D:
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Damn, I'm surprised this thread didn't get more replies than it did. That was an awesome list! Really gave me perspective on things in my life.
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I can relate to so many of those points
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thats true right there especially the family thing. its so ****ed up not "knowing" how to socialize with even your family. Unfortunately and fortunately, Opiates solve the problem for me sometimes temporarily or long term like getting a job. But don't try opiates seriously you get in a worse state after you run out.
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I have to say, probably less than half of that really even applies to me... eh, guess its how hard im being on myself at the time. Well i feel for you.

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-shutting people out because im afraid they might hurt me at some point
-constantly feeling like I shouldn't join in on conversations because my opinions dont matter
-being unable to talk about my feelings with anyone i know
-constantly relapsing into depression after every single bad social experience
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I hate not being able to answer questions in front of the class, even though everyone gets it wrong and I ALWAYS know the correct answer.

I hate feeling as if I'm not the real me because my brain is 'broken'.

I hate going home and crying after I get faced with a stressful social situation and just breaking down, It happens often.

The only thing I can say I love is that I have all of the people online who are supportive, positive and encourage me to try in life, When I come home crying these forums are all that makes me feel better.
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I hate how I how I moved from a small town to a huge city in the effort to make friends, only to isolate myself even further, missing the people I do have back at home.
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