Well you could look at the dark side of the web & melt your eyeballs at the true colors of human nature, or look up how we're raping the planet everyday, that might make celibacy seem not so bad
i appreciate this kind of input - no worries blue2.
I think that's why some people get ashamed or embarrassed about sex, they're ashamed what they're capable of liking in the moment.
that's what it is.
If you think you can no way get what you want. I will suggest you something. Watch some autopsy videos.Watch how the human body is dissected and the organs are taken out for examination. You might find it weird. But I can tell you;it will give you a different perspective of life.I know it worked for some people. You might go through the same experience, who knows.
i used to do that in my younger years , but not too distract myself from horniness, just out of curiosity.
Someone booty called you so what is that you did to make them want to?
Were you laying in bed frozen out of anxiety/fear or what?
1. being a cool-looking alt kid, being funny, being smart, nice smile - something like that?
2. yes immense SA.
What is your age and where do you live?
So much time wasted trying to make human connections.
. We can grow over our needs, you just need to practise your brains.
I thought you were a virgin but then you mentioned having sex before so.. why can’t you do what you did then to get sex from women?
don't really have a social circle other than work, and just SA in general. i do have SA during
sex as well but it's a lot milder than the SA of finding a sex partner.
probably harder too now that i've realised i'm trans
tho i'll definitely pretend to be a man when my desperation becomes unstoppable.
well I think the best way to see celibacy as something positive is to look at the cons. When you have sex a lot it can become very addicting, also with celibacy you avoid heart break-- when ever I read,see or hear about a trash asx relationship I thank my lucky stars I'm single, then the obvious...no stds.
There's no greater regret than knowing you've cut your own life short by chasing tail.
look on the bright side.
it's good advice. the addictive aspect is very real for me. one taste and i'm hooked. even had a coworker sadistically joking she'd come on to me, after i told her i was super horny. when she said that, i started coming on to her (i knew she's taken) and now i'm exerting myself to back down.
Originally Posted by WillYouStopDave
I think (probably) you are going to be bitter if you want to be bitter. If you think you don't want to be bitter but still are, you probably have the issue of conflicting forces working inside where there is a lot more of you that wants to be bitter than there is that doesn't. Like maybe it's analogous to the person who doesn't want to be overweight but really loves to eat and really hates to diet and exercise.
yeah that's definitely a part of it. acceptance and all that.