Heard Roommate Complaining About Me
I live in a suite-style dorm, which in this case is basically two single studio rooms connected by a shared bathroom. The walls are really thin, so anything that goes on inside the bathroom can be heard--which is embarrassing, especially because I do not know the girl who lives in the other room. She introduced herself when she moved in, and I haven't seen her since.
Today, I go into the bathroom and I can hear that she has two guys in her room. So, I left the faucet on so they wouldn't hear me peeing. When I finished, I flush the toilet, and suddenly the guys start laughing. One of them yells through the door, "Yo, roommate, you taking a ****!?" I brush this off as him being a jerk, even though it was sort of humiliating to be called out like that. So what if I had been? You really need to comment on that? After I shut the door I hear my roommate start talking, and it definitely sounds like she's complaining about me. Something about how I wake her up all the time, but I couldn't make out the exact words. I think she's making fun of how/when I go to the bathroom.
Now, both the sink and the toilet are pretty loud, especially because our beds are like two feet from the bathroom door. I get up at 6:30am to go to work, and I have to shower/brush my teeth/use the toilet. I have heard her get out of bed right after I get out of the bathroom in the morning, so I probably do wake her up sometimes. But, I don't understand what else she expects me to do??
Additionally, she never uses the communal items that I bought for the bathroom (soap, trash can, bath mat). She even uses her own toilet paper instead of taking it from the roll that I have in the dispenser. She doesn't even put her shampoo/body wash in the shower. I left the (small) shelf completely open to her, and bought my own suction-cup shelves for my stuff. I don't know if she realizes I bought these, and maybe thinks I'm hogging all the space on purpose?
I'm sorry for the long post, and I'm probably over-reacting, but I really don't want this girl to dislike me. I don't know what I'm doing so wrong to have her ***** about me, when I'm right in the next room and can hear her doing it? Does she think I'm an inconsiderate, loud, space-hog? Should I leave a note in the bathroom asking her to discuss any issues with me? I'm really anxious and embarrassed about this.