Overreaction for sure, but the question was kinda careless I guess. I know you definitely didn't mean ill, but the last thing she wants to feel is that she is some sort of import from another country. Thank god you didn't get to the followup question, because that one was even worse, lmao.
Did she have to get up and storm out? Hell no. She was definitely being a ***** about it. It's not like you asked her when her last period was, lmfao. BUT, maybe she's heard that question and it's many variants fatiguingly often and is tired of that being a talking point. Also, you gotta realize a lot of white guys fetishize "asians" and maybe you rang some alarm bells in her head, even if you didn't mean to.
How did the interactions before the date on Tinder go? Seems like the meetup was a bit rushed if you guys hit it off so poorly on the actual date. You'd think you'd sense that she was touchy before then. I don't know.
Never could learn to drink that blood
And call it wine,
Never could learn to hold you, love,
And call you mine.