welcome to your 20's. I see your 21 which is nice for your sake, you're still very young. It only gets weirder, people get weirder and the things people value in life only get weirder through your 20's. So even good friends are hard to hold onto, even within the same town.
buckle up, I can't wait to turn 30. Sick of the ****ing games that you need to play in order to fit in in your 20's. I find most 20 something don't have a ****ing clue of what they want, good from bad, nice from douchbag, caring, from unthoughtful, ****head from poo poo face. Yeah you get my point. Basically I'm disgusted with what people become and what drives them in life. to sum it up, once in your 20's its all about you. nobody cares about one another and if they do, it's because they can provide them with a commodity. In the form of social circles, financial and wealth related variables, ect. you provide nothing, or less than most... for a lack of better wording, even if your a solid person, before long you'll be ex'd out for someone that can bring a little more to the table.
Sorry for the negativity, hope you find a friend close by. Probably didnt give you a lot of hope. not that you were counting on me anyway.