Most people, from my observation; are quite solipsistic and sometimes, the solipsism is unintentional but it is still prevalent.
You tell someone about your problems and they usually have to find some way to make the conversation about themselves or else they would be completely uninterested in conversing with you.
This goes for so called "normies", other anxious people, other depressed people et cetera; Which is one reason why I find most conversations with people to be completely unfulfilling.
The human ego is quite obtuse and hard to satiate.
We haven't lived in anything remotely close to "real" since the turn of the century.