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post #21 of 26 (permalink) Old 09-19-2013, 07:03 PM
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yes, for sure.
I'm an over-tolerable person, so my friends used that to their advantage to take advantage of me. I was the go too for class notes, etc. When I didn't do something my friends liked, they yelled at me and I was always calm. I wish I had more guts, but I just don't
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many people like to pick on others that they consider weak, to they can feel strong themselves, its like they feed on others weakness...I knew a guy like that, the first time someone confronted him, he coward away...
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Yeah I think people do.

Usually for me what makes it worse is i'm quite a slim guy. So people assume i'm hardly going to stand up for myself as I will get flattened.

It's complete bullying because the people that push me around or rip into me are people who either are big built and know they can beat me up if I say anything back or people that are in a group with multiple other guys for backup.

Those are the only times i'm really pushed about. If it's someone my own size, they wont bother
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Yea, I'm an easy target for sure. I'd stand up for yourself next time something happens
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post #25 of 26 (permalink) Old 09-19-2013, 07:40 PM
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I let them, so I guess it is my fault, but I realize it every time so isn't like I don't know what I'm doing.

I just don't care.
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You don't have to raise your voice or sound angry-that's what she wants. You can condescendingly call out her behaviors like say "Oh wow, your gonna roll yours eyes at me".

I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened.
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Watch your thoughts: They become your words.
Watch your words: They become your actions.
Watch your actions: They become your habits.
Watch your habits: They become your character.
Watch your character: It becomes your destiny.
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