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That's perverse!
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That's perverse!
I agree. Except without the laughing.

I am the son and the heir of a shyness that is criminally vulgar. I am the son and heir of nothing in particular.

You shut your mouth. How can you say I go about things the wrong way? I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does.
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I live with that feeling every day. I've never even touched a woman so even the simplest kind of intimacy would feel incredible for me. I think I would just melt if I could experience what a hug or holding hands feels like.
Took the words right out of my mouth.

Mine too.

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we all want what we cant have. Once we get that what we want, we no longer want it.
Yeah that can be very true, IF you are not attracted to the person whom you are with once you have them and it was just a small crush.
Otherwise i think it would be lovely

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This is going to sound WEIRD but a therapist I had a few years back recommended that I stroke my own arms when distressed - because the body's nervous system responds to affectionate touch even if it comes from yourself. Try it!! Hug You.
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oh, same here! i want to hold a woman so bad. everytime i see an attractive woman i imagine myself wrapping my arms around her waist and holding her. it's getting to the point of desperation ..
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Ughh yes I want that so bad

Maybe you can afford to wait. Maybe for you there's a tomorrow. Maybe for you there's a thousand tomorrows, or three thousand, or ten. So much time you can bathe in it, roll around in it, let it slide like coins through your fingers. So much time you can waste it.
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post #30 of 145 (permalink) Old 01-31-2011, 07:48 AM
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I live with that feeling every day. I've never even touched a woman so even the simplest kind of intimacy would feel incredible for me. I think I would just melt if I could experience what a hug or holding hands feels like.
I try to drown out that feeling by listening to heavy metal all day....as if that's gonna help...but at the end of the day it's always there. Try as I might, I can't deny it, and it breaks me in some moments.
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I try to drown out that feeling by listening to heavy metal all day....as if that's gonna help...but at the end of the day it's always there. Try as I might, I can't deny it, and it breaks me in some moments.
Same really.
But I feel I have to distract my thoughts or give up on it or else the feeling becomes unbearable.
Of course then you meet a sweet girl that reignites those feelings and you're back where you started.
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Haha same here, I'm startig a new high school and im gonna be on a mission to find a nice bf lol

I want someone to kiss, cuddle and snuggle with...
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Yes I feel the same, It used to depress me a lot that I haven't someone special to snuggle up with and go places with and stuff. Wouldn't that be nice, kind of got used to being alone now though, oh well.
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oh, same here! i want to hold a woman so bad. everytime i see an attractive woman i imagine myself wrapping my arms around her waist and holding her. it's getting to the point of desperation ..
I have a very similar fantasy every time I see a pretty girl.
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I hear stories about closeness being great.

I'd sell a nut for some of that, although such an action would make intimacy more difficult for a few weeks I reckon.
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oh, same here! i want to hold a woman so bad. everytime i see an attractive woman i imagine myself wrapping my arms around her waist and holding her. it's getting to the point of desperation ..
This is not a problem for me. Not because I hold a lot of women but because I'm afraid of intimacy as a whole. I've seen so many people burned by it that I just feel like it would be a wasted effort. Rather just focus on school.
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I feel the same way, I am actually quite sick of being alone.
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I know the feeling. I hug my pillow at night, sad isn't it?
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I know the feeling. I hug my pillow at night, sad isn't it?
Nah, makes me want to hug you *huugs*
Just might want to think twice before painting a smiley face on it
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