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The kind where you cuddle up w/ someone on a couch and watch movies. I've been wanting that so badly lately. Oh the frustration
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I can't offer that but I can send you all the loving thoughts that I have and say, I know what that feels like.

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The kind where you cuddle up w/ someone on a couch and watch movies. I've been wanting that so badly lately. Oh the frustration

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or whatever waking up next to each other on a weekend and just staying in bed, talking and cuddling. i always liked doing that with my ex

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I know exactly what you mean Fireflylight.

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I live with that feeling every day. I've never even touched a woman so even the simplest kind of intimacy would feel incredible for me. I think I would just melt if I could experience what a hug or holding hands feels like.
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Yep, I feel the same...
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I live with that feeling every day. I've never even touched a woman so even the simplest kind of intimacy would feel incredible for me. I think I would just melt if I could experience what a hug or holding hands feels like.
Took the words right out of my mouth.

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I get that way sometimes, then realize that all men are jerks and hug my dog instead.
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yeah well im 17 and I've never even kissed a guy. its pretty pathetic, but im just scared of getting close to anyone and having people know me for who i really am.
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The kind where you cuddle up w/ someone on a couch and watch movies. I've been wanting that so badly lately. Oh the frustration
I feel the same exact way. I've never had no one to cuddle with. I've been intimate with someone a loooooong time ago.. I just need some TLC.

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I get that way sometimes, then realize that all men are jerks and hug my dog instead.
Yeah, you'd be better off...

Though I know all men aren't jerks, just 99% of them are. I'll probably be alone and thank God my meds cut down my libido because it was off the charts before.

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At this point, i really don't care if they are jerks or not. To be honest you really can't trust anybody...male or female. Thats why its soo hard to let my guard down.

I think what brought on these lonely feelings all of a sudden...is this guy i've been talking to for the past week. We talk on the phone everynight for about 3 or 4 hours max. I've never been able to talk to anybody like this before. Hes got a good head on his shoulders,very blunt,outgoing,honest,laid-back,funny,wise,spirtual,understanding, and just overall a gentlemen...although he is a big flirt,likes to drink every now and then, and smokes cigarettes(which i hate).

Anyway....he has been KINDA making me realize that i do need somebody and its not right to isolate yourself. He gives me confidence. Its scary as hell. These feelings are new to me.

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I realize it's new to you and it's a beautiful thing when you have those feelings. I guess I'm just at a point where I've been there and done that and I've been disappointed time after time so I'm over it...for now anyway. I wish you the best though.

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YeAH some one to just... love me for who I am would be nice alright...

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It feels as if we are constantly moving away from "home," and we just need that special someone's arms on which to finally rest our heads.
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I get that way sometimes, then realize that all men are jerks and hug my dog instead.
except my dog decided he doesn't like me anymore. I've been too depressed to pay attention to him. So I go for one of the cats instead. All they want is a warm body. Or I'll snuggle with my sister if we're watching a movie.

I am the son and the heir of a shyness that is criminally vulgar. I am the son and heir of nothing in particular.

You shut your mouth. How can you say I go about things the wrong way? I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does.
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Re: craving physical intimacy


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The kind where you cuddle up w/ someone on a couch and watch movies. I've been wanting that so badly lately. Oh the frustration
Not too long ago the lack of this in my life really threw me into an emotionally cold and lonely place. It's amazing what something so simple can do for the mind.
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