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I think guys cares about breast sizes as much as women cares about penis sizes.
lol no way. most guys will just take whatever breast size on a woman that they can get, penis size is a totally different thing.
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lol no way. most guys will just take whatever breast size on a woman that they can get, penis size is a totally different thing.
most women think the same about penises.

the human vagina is usually only 5-7 inches deep when aroused anyway (google ftw)
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most women think the same about penises.

the human vagina is usually only 5-7 inches deep when aroused anyway (google ftw)
I think most women would be put off by a 3 inch penis
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In Greece, didn't they prefer smaller penises?

I can't remember but yeah

And like they found large penises very comical or something

I dunno I have terrible memory and whatnot
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In Greece, didn't they prefer smaller penises?

I can't remember but yeah

And like they found large penises very comical or something

I dunno I have terrible memory and whatnot
all their statues/paintings have ridiculously tiny dicks but I've never heard anything like that
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In Greece, didn't they prefer smaller penises?

I can't remember but yeah

And like they found large penises very comical or something

I dunno I have terrible memory and whatnot
yes, yes that's true. A large penise meant that the man was a beast. In the sense of being unintelligent. Hence those greek statues often have teeny weeny penises
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all their statues/paintings have ridiculously tiny dicks but I've never heard anything like that
If only I had better memory
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yes, yes that's true. A large penise meant that the man was a beast. In the sense of being unintelligent. Hence those greek statues often have teeny weeny penises
Yay, I wasn't BS-ing! C:
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so basically it was just a stereotype they created to make themselves feel better about having tiny wieners

kind of like how modern guys with tiny wieners just make up poems like "it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean" to make themselves feel better
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I agree with what you say about novelty. It is relevant how fertile she looks because that is what attraction is based on. It's unconscious basically. And big tits don't have to do with it. That's all I want you to realise is that it matters, just as people prefer different quirky traits that's fine, but that's all breast size is. Hip size is important and generally a woman with a literal, literal figure of a man straight up and down will not be found attractive, even if she had the biggest titties on the planet lol. Breast size vs penis size is also kind of irrelevant given penis size causes us organisms more frequently depending where it hits our g spot or rather "how it fits" but breast size is simply something that is looked at mainly. Women with small breasts all over fashion magazines, how can you say it's not just as sexy? From AA-DD I see fashion models with small boobs looking hot and I see pornstars who are curvy like I am looking hot. I think it is extremely hard to generalise what men want, and frankly, WOMEN listen up, WHO CARES what men want lmao you are what you are. enjoy it!
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so basically it was just a stereotype they created to make themselves feel better about having tiny wieners

kind of like how modern guys with tiny wieners just make up poems like "it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean" to make themselves feel better
I dunno

I'm a virgin and stuff so I guess my opinion doesn't matter

but I think most penises are rather nice despite sizes

i think i'd judge curve more


but I don't really know

or care that much because I ain't picky


can I get in trouble for saying this? >| I'm assuming not but who knows

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If penises are giving you organisms frequently, you should try using contraception.
I thought something similar when I read it but I didn't want to be rude

so I am glad you did C: LOLL
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generally circumference is more important is what I've read


but I'm a virgin so I don't really have the right to speak either


but GD8 there's no reason to feel bad with, let's say, a 6 inch penis since most women won't really care.
You, and society, chooses to make it into a problem just like how so many teenage girls get insecure by photoshopped pictures in magazines and anorexic catwalk models while the vast majority of men doesn't even like those models and prefers women with more feminine curves
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generally circumference is more important is what I've read


but I'm a virgin so I don't really have the right to speak either


but GD8 there's no reason to feel bad with, let's say, a 6 inch penis since most women won't really care.
You, and society, chooses to make it into a problem just like how so many teenage girls get insecure by photoshopped pictures in magazines and anorexic catwalk models while the vast majority of men doesn't even like those models and prefers women with more feminine curves
I never said 6 inches is bad, it's pretty good as far as I'm concerned. 3-4 inches on the other hand is pretty small.
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idk about that. That seems questionable indeed. But I'm larger than 6 inches anyway so I don't need to worry about that

(too much info..? :p)
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I dunno

it should seriously say something about my lack of measurement skills that I keep having to glance at the ruler on my desk

.... yep

ruler says six inches is large enough indeed
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I don't even have a ruler..


-edit: yay for my edit button. It just popped out of nowhere
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CELEBRATION FOR THE EDIT BUTTON

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I'm pretty sure this ruler is like
...seven years old

That's pretty old for a ruler, ya? ;_;

Especially coming from someone that has never had a pet longer than five years
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You should know that some guys dig a girl without a lot up there believe it or not!
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so basically it was just a stereotype they created to make themselves feel better about having tiny wieners
It probably had something to do with their whole older male-young boy relationship thing.
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Some of the answers in this thread are problematic. It's great that everyone is trying to make the OP feel better, but how good is it to try doing it while putting another body type down (i.e. large breasts, fake breasts)? In addition, how is it healthy to tell her that getting fake breasts (if that's what she pleases, even though I'm not for PS) is a bad idea because most men don't like that? Don't get me started on the "guys don't look at tits, we prefer tight butts/nice legs." It's not a good idea to praise one body type while you put down others. More importantly, it's not okay to tell someone they should be happy with their small breasts because "I (stranger) actually prefer small ones." That's basically saying don't be happy with your body because it's all you have, be happy because a percentage of people out there actually like it.

OP, you're a woman if you feel like one, regardless of the size of your breasts. It's hard to tell yourself your body is beautiful when you have the media and people around you saying otherwise, but there is nothing wrong/ugly/unwomanly about the size of your breasts.
I had huge issues with my own breasts growing up because they were "too big." The kids in my neighborhood would even make fun of me when I was in a bathing suit (*ssholes). Unfortunately, women's bodies are seen as public property for others to judge; women included. You can be strong and fight against that, or you can get plastic surgery to fill a void. My "breast issue" is the opposite, yet it hurt me equally. Your body will never be perfect because there is no such thing. No one will ever collectively agree on that, so try to find happiness with what you have.
This is so truthful. There is no perfection.

I just wrote a post about "imperfections" and "beauty" on my blog today. It does seem to come up an awful lot on this forum.

http://ains-leigh.blogspot.com/2012/...derweight.html

I've come to realise that you can't really fix the outside to make the inside feel better.
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