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post #121 of 141 (permalink) Old 11-20-2015, 11:01 PM
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You say "reject" like it's a dirty word. Maybe I want to be a reject. :P

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post #122 of 141 (permalink) Old 11-20-2015, 11:23 PM
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Whether or not I'm a reject to my fellow SAS'ers shouldn't matter too much, I prefer this place to fb. If I grow bored of this place, then I'll simply find another place. I do however remember most of the conversations and users who reached out to me, I greatly appreciate it, very grateful. I used to be in darker days but now I finally see hope, some of y'all aided me in finding clarity. Whereas people irl would disregard my woes.

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You say "reject" like it's a dirty word. Maybe I want to be a reject. :P
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post #125 of 141 (permalink) Old 11-21-2015, 01:30 AM
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I don't feel I'm popular here. I rarely get in arguments, so there probably aren't many people who hate me. I get PMs from people a couple times a year but the conversations always die. I'm sure I bore a lot of people.
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post #127 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 04:25 PM
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Hell yes.

Almost everyone on my friends list was added by me first. I made the request. Only like 5 people added me first.
And PMs almost never happen in either direction.
Come on people, what's so bad about me? lol

But seeing all these people here makes me think that maybe I'm not so bad. I'm just focusing on the very popular members who have a bunch of people on their friends list and a trillion page visits.

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Come on people, what's so bad about me? lol
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post #130 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 06:43 PM
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When I was active here I got a lot of hatred/despise, so I guess I am a reject even online.
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post #131 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 07:54 PM
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I feel the same way. Everyone is annoyed at me

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post #132 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 08:08 PM
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yes I am but I would rather be a reject here than a star. Better to be the former.
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post #133 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 08:13 PM
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can't exactly blame people with SA for not reaching out :/ if you appreciate specific members then engage them. if they feel awkward to reply or anything, be understanding and try not to take it personally. honestly, this is like the only place where i don't take silence and unresponsiveness personally :P

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post #134 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 08:18 PM
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can't exactly blame people with SA for not reaching out :/ if you appreciate specific members then engage them. if they feel awkward to reply or anything, be understanding and try not to take it personally. honestly, this is like the only place where i don't take silence and unresponsiveness personally :P
I really don't think it's SA most of the time... Everyone is just looking for something else though. It's pretty easy to take it personally because we all assumed that this place would be different, that we can find some support.

Maybe that support is just talking with like minded folk, commiserating, not to feel like a reject, a safe haven perhaps.
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post #135 of 141 (permalink) Old 12-01-2015, 08:24 PM
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I really don't think it's SA most of the time... Everyone is just looking for something else though. It's pretty easy to take it personally because we all assumed that this place would be different, that we can find some support.

Maybe that support is just talking with like minded folk, commiserating, not to feel like a reject, a safe haven perhaps.
hmm, you could be right about this. i guess everyone perceives support differently. others prefer to vent, others prefer to participate in games, others to discuss movies, others to discuss techniques to overcome SA. so it's easy to feel "unsupported".

but also many people who are insecure socially, even online. there are many nice people here who are terribly afraid of bothering others so they don't reach out.
edit: or they dont know what to say as a reply because they re afraid it will be boring

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hmm, you could be right about this. i guess everyone perceives support differently. others prefer to vent, others prefer to participate in games, others to discuss movies, others to discuss techniques to overcome SA. so it's easy to feel "unsupported".

but also many people who are insecure socially, even online. there are many nice people here who are terribly afraid of bothering others so they don't reach out.
edit: or they dont know what to say as a reply because they re afraid it will be boring
The second paragraph, I can understand. Then again, it's a lot easier to decide to reply/not reply than it is to send a 1st message out. If you aren't one who gets attention, i.e. people initiating conversations with you, private or otherwise, (other threads have been made about this) then you have to look for it, somewhere, somehow on this forum...
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I feel the same way. Everyone is annoyed at me
Crap better not get caught talking to you again! and I thought you where cool!
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Ok this thread needs to die like right now. Please stop posting in it. I threw a ***** fit and it made it to 7 pages. Now just let it die please.

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Ok this thread needs to die like right now. Please stop posting in it. I threw a ***** fit and it made it to 7 pages. Now just let it die please.
No I want to be popular on a mental health forum
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I told the mods the thread is spam and it needs to be closed.

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