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Any body else really wanna have a kid/kids?


Seems like i keep getting asked if I have kids at my job and if I ever want to have them. A co worker even told me she was surprised I didn't have any kids...me being a black guy who lives in DC. Later she told me she thinks I would make a good father....no idea why she gave me such a compliment....


I really wanna have a kid.I think having a kid would make me more responsiblie and motivated to do better in life.I also want to help a kid become the success n life that I never was................

I've been having condomless sex with my gf alot lately in hopes of getting her pregnant...
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**** no!

Have you talked to your gf about it?
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nah, we haven't talked about it...she really doesn't want to have a kid now....i'm still trying to get a seed in her though...
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Maybe you and your partner should try adopting a kid.You know how many children are abandoned every year?They need a home and a family.Besides the world is a nasty place, why would you want to bring another innocent soul into this world?

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A year or two ago, i halfway liked the idea. Right now, **** that ****. I can barely take care of myself, much less a little kid.

You have no effect on me because you are flat chested!
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Yeah. Maybe someday if i ever met someone who does with me.
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Yes I would love to have a beautiful child. If I have a son he and I will play piano and practice music. If I have a young daughter she and I will snuggle up together and watch Disney movies.. It is my dream to have a wife and child.



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wtf your partner is telling you shes not ready for a child but youre still trying to actively impregnate her?!? thats so ****ed up.

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To answer the main question: yes I've always wanted to be a mom. Time is quickly running out though.
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why don't you get a dog instead? :/
(even though i sense it's a trolling thread)

i'm serious
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wtf your partner is telling you shes not ready for a child but youre still trying to actively impregnate her?!? thats so ****ed up.
Well, all he said he's doing is having condomless sex, which, she's doing too. Unless he lied to her about having a vasectomy or something, she's actively trying to get pregnant too.
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There are so many things f-ed up with this thread I don't even know where to start. I really don't.


I hope you're trolling.


Deciding to become a father because someone threw an off-handed comment at you one day at work? Are you serious?
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I'm not excluding the idea of becoming a father, but right now the answer would be a clear no. As others here said, I can barely take care of myself not to mention being in a relationship and having kids.

It's only after we've lost everything, that we're free to do anything.
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I want to have babies.

Anyway dont impregnate a woman if she's not ready to have a baby yet that will ruin the relatiosnship and she might just leave the kid with you and go and it will be your fault. Should tell her and wait how come she doesnt know you'r not using condoms? huh
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I really wanna have a kid.I think having a kid would make me more responsiblie and motivated to do better in life.I also want to help a kid become the success n life that I never was................
Those are literally the worst reason you could ever have for wanting children.
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I've been having condomless sex with my gf alot lately in hopes of getting her pregnant...
For ****'s sake.

Do you have any idea how serious having a baby is? And how your reasons for wanting to force yet another human into this world are selfish and stupid?
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Well, all he said he's doing is having condomless sex, which, she's doing too. Unless he lied to her about having a vasectomy or something, she's actively trying to get pregnant too.
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nah, we haven't talked about it...she really doesn't want to have a kid now....i'm still trying to get a seed in her though...
I'm pretty sure saying she really doesnt want to have a kid means she isnt actively trying to get pregnant.
The reason he has for wanting kids is incredibly selfish too.

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