Originally Posted by slightlyawkward
Uhh. That's not the way everyone feels. Just sayin'. Sex is a big deal for some people, myself included. I'm glad that I waited for someone that I developed deep feelings for.
I can't help but notice these comments often come from females!
Not to be offensive or rude!
But I just think females have a different approach on sex and the first time.And it's only normal we're different after all.
It's far better to be a virgin, even later in life, than to have sex, just so you can say you had it. I wish I had waited for the right man, my first time was with a complete a-hole. He certainly wasn't worthy of something so personal.
But you have to imagine yourself being a man!
How are you going to seduce or attract someone properly when you're completely plagued by inconfidence,low self-esteem and more!
There's always a chance for bad outcomes even with someone you meet the proper way.
They might laugh at the inexperience of such an old virgin.
Or they might not mind there's no telling.
I really think when you're a 40 year old virgin you don't care about the emotional whatif and whatnot you just want to do it!