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He must be sweating about the lease. You sign a new one each year?

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He must be sweating about the lease. You sign a new one each year?
No. It was a 1 year lease at the start but since September it's been month to month. So I just have to give him 1 month's notice before I move out. Year long leases and month to month both have positives and negatives.

Month to month is nice cause you can move out anytime but the landlord can jack up the rent on you, something to be afraid of if rents are increasing rapidly in your area. With a one year lease you are stuck but at least you don't have to worry about rent increases during that period.
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No. It was a 1 year lease at the start but since September it's been month to month. So I just have to give him 1 month's notice before I move out. Year long leases and month to month both have positives and negatives.

Month to month is nice cause you can move out anytime but the landlord can jack up the rent on you, something to be afraid of if rents are increasing rapidly in your area. With a one year lease you are stuck but at least you don't have to worry about rent increases during that period.
Hmmmm. Guess he wants you to stay then. I wouldn't expect a sudden burst of generosity from someone who is overtly stingy unless they have a reason.

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