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For the past couple years I've been thinking a lot about the concept of "looking forward" to something and how rare it is for me now. Even events like vacations and concerts have become something I really have to push myself into. I remember when I was younger my main thing to look forward to was partying with friends. It was a high in and of itself. It was like I was electrified. So I'm trying to think of something I'm looking forward to and I guess I have to say I am sort of looking forward to going to SF this friday to see Cat Power. But there's still that tinge of just wanting to hunker down in my dungeon.

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Thank you, we did have an amazing time at the show .
You're welcome.

That is good to hear.
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I'm looking forward to Tuesdays now that I'm volunteering.
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This time next year I'll be approaching the big 30. Does that count??

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This time next year I'll be approaching the big 30. Does that count??

I just turned 34 back in September, despite my struggles, I love my 30's way more then my 20's. I feel like when your in your 20's your dealing with stuff far more then in your 30's. Everyone's different of course, but in my life there was more stress in my 20's from outside sources, now its just internal chaos, but for me personally its much different. I went through college which I loved but being around people of my age was not easy. I like that's there's less social pressure on me in my 30's then when I was younger.
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Days off from work (4 day weekend in Nov & 9 days in Dec). Plan on being inebriated.
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