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Thursday 24th of March 2016 dealing with bereavement


So thursday morning I found out sadly that my grandad had peacefully passed away at 00.30am. This is a situation I've been dreading for a long time. Fortunately all my memories are happy ones spent with him in his better years before his poor health. I'm so sad my fiancee didn't get the chance to meet him and will only be able to give him a send off Thursday 7th April. He used to be such a big strong bloke!! Full of independence before his I'll health strook along with damensia which I found very hard to speak with him once this kicked in.
He suffered from C.O.P.D Cognitive, Obstructive Pulmonary Disease " Emphasemia" and damensia. He was very ill with his copd. He has a fall a couple of weeks ago which landed him in hospital where he then caught a chest infection and deteriorated there onwards. He had very low blood pressure fluid in his lungs and wouldn't eat anything.
It scared me so much as my mum has now been diagnosed with C.O.P.D also and I do not want to see her deteriate over the years and get sick from This disease. I hope she's able to quit smoking I really do.
I don't know what id do without my mum:/ It doesn't bare thinking about...
This is a very sad time for me and if I'm totally honest everything still feels quite surreal at the moment. My mother and uncle will now be the last of my mother's line. Of which within the next couple of months I shall be taking on their surnames to keep the family name.
My mum's brother (my uncle) is a such a selfish strangely odd person. He's been very cold about the news isn't going to come to his funeral and won't go to my mother's ever either. Because Apparent he doesn't do funerals wtf?!?!?!?
Anyhow now that I'm grown up this is the first family funeral I'm having to attend and deal with.
Within the past 6 years I've been to 2 funerals which were friends one in 2009 which was my friends Tom who I sadly witnessed his death 24th October 2009. And the other was a mutual friend of friends Tracey in either 2013 I think as she chose to end her life.
Anyway I guess I just wanted somewhere to share this.
I'm sorry if I sadden any one!!
Take care for now.
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Sorry for your loss. I haven't really loss anyone close to me yet. I have no idea how I will react. Sorry about losing the friends in the past as well, must of been tough.

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Sorry for your loss. I haven't really loss anyone close to me yet. I have no idea how I will react. Sorry about losing the friends in the past as well, must of been tough.

Cheers @Kevin001 yes it isn't easy and certainly is tough life is so unfair!!

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i have lost my step dad then lost my mum it killes me so i understand your pain

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i have lost my step dad then lost my mum it killes me so i understand your pain
Oh gosh poor you. I'm so sorry to hear that @stewartmays1 . Its so sad

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Oh gosh poor you. I'm so sorry to hear that @stewartmays1 . Its so sad
thankyou i dont think you ever forget i will always remember them

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