The Key to Happiness.
"you're looking at all these different facets of life, and trying to break them down as if being whats considered "the best" in these facets is what is what will make you happy. Really being happy is get yourself to a point where you will be able to be happy with less than the "best", but what works for you. Happiness is based on your construals of things, not on any innate characteristic of the the "things". And that is really the goal of everything, as I try to order this together. To "win" in life is too be happy, and to be happy is to construct a mindstate where you are happy in your own "bests". winning at life = being happy = finding the best construal for your situation."