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post #1 of 4 (permalink) Old 09-04-2017, 01:39 PM Thread Starter
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I'm trying my hardest to stay positive


I'm trying really hard to make friends. This year, I only know one person at my lunch and she's moving soon. I'm nervous because I don't want to look like a loner eating alone. I'm trying really hard to make some new friends that have that lunch but it's difficult for me. My school is very cliquey and I feel like I don't really fit in anywhere. Idk it just makes me sad. If you have any advice, I'm welcome to here it.
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Aww. I used to stand up by the office to avoid people. The cafe was so cliquey. Hmm idk I hope you can make another friend before she leaves but if not don't feel bad you're not alone.

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I was in a similar situation when I was in 8th grade. I was new in school and made a few friends, but when they were gone I would be alone. My school was also very cliquey and I didn't really fit in. Before she moves, maybe see if you can find another person sitting alone and maybe try to sit with them and make small talk. If by the time she moves and you're still stuck in this situation I would just eat, and then go to the bathroom and play on your phone if y'all can't have phones out during lunch period. That's not the best advice, but that's what I use to do sometimes and it made me not so anxious, plus I'd play games! Let us know if you end up finding a new friend. Wishing the best for you.
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Control your heart emotions

How?

We have body - Brain and heart

Brain say it is right it is wrong

heart says everything is right

Take the use of Brain instead to think from heart always.

How to Control heart?

Think whether you are doing right the step taken ask from your Brain not from heart.
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