how to stop comparing myself to others
I would like to know how. It seems to come naturally for me, but i know i'll never be successful or happy if i keep doing it. i'm constantly comparing my life to others, and i feel like a total loser compared to people who are successful. I'm 21, don't have a job (and never have), am just starting 2 year college now, and have never had a relationship. i would like to stop focusing on all of the ways i'm behind in life so i can actually get somewhere in life and not be so depressed, but my mind keeps nagging me. how can i start thinking a little more positively?